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Betrayal

Written by Sam2say from the blog Cheating Ex on 04 Jul 2008
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Eii yall I’ve got something 2 say…… Im Baaaa.aaaaaacccccckkkkkk

Hai bo the things that happens these days Bantu, iyo, angisazi mina!!!…..

Firstly I’d like to say I miss everyone, u know guys the world of unemployment is not easy, thanks 4 the welcome backs in advance, thank you, thank you.

Now here’s my story, I hope mabloggers would give me solutions to this before I do something I will regret, I know u guys are helpful and ya’ll are unprofessional psychiatrists and your advises always count for something…

Cool her goes….
Just last week my older sister whos like 4 years older than me asked me for my ex’s number, who is a prosecutor and when I asked her what she needed them for, she tells me a friend needs a lawyer.
Without any suspicions I do as she asked, hai bo!!! today I find out that, they have been seeing each other for days now, she even slept ova at his house just the other day and last nite they went out and she came back late, these people know what they are doing is wrong coz when he drops her off he leaves immediately.

I have neva felt so betrayed in my life, my own sister Bantu, don’t people have di pelo these days mara?

So peeps plese help me out on this one?

1. Am I crazy to be angry becoz he is my ex?

2. What was my sister thinking Bantu? That we were just “friends”?

3. What does one do when they r in this predicament?- I thought of breaking his windows when he comes
here the next time, I mean clearly he does nt respect me to do such a thing, I wanna hit him where it hurts the most- in his pockets- just so he knows never to disrespect woman like that

4. My sister would sleep with anything that passes her eyes as long as its flashing money, and yes this guy is moneyd, she actually asked my other sister if the two nice cars he drives are his…. I mean, was that any of her business?

5. Did I have anything to do with this by not sleeping with his, I mean does that give him the right to do what he did?

6. This is specially to the guys, would you guys ever think of doing such a thing, if yes why?

Iiyoo!!! Hai, I dnt know anymore, guys pls help. This this just happened today and I know Im very irrational now, that’s why I need yall to help

IIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMM GGGOOOOOOOIIIIIINNNGGGGGG CCCCCCRRRAAAAAZZZZZZZZYYYY……………….

49 Comments

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 06:48

Ok guys Please help out....

Im so happy to be back on TVSA, you guys rock...

Cande
03 Jul 2008 06:53

shame

Cody
03 Jul 2008 06:54

mmm, ill be back

monchooza
03 Jul 2008 06:55

kill them both...

carino
03 Jul 2008 06:56

back now-now.

KeleFabulous
03 Jul 2008 06:58

just do the dude nawe and be one big happy family!

Cody
03 Jul 2008 06:59

Do you still love your ex Sam2say?

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 06:59

@ monchooza..... That has actually crossed my mind, was gonna start with her coz she sleeps in the room next 2 mine, that other one yena, ne ke tlo mo skouta, a ke tsebe wa tseba...

felfel
03 Jul 2008 07:02

Carino wat it you that was accussed of doing the "i'll be back" thing and never come back ?

Cande
03 Jul 2008 07:03

LoL @ Kele

blakrose
03 Jul 2008 07:08

iyoh !!!!!

Strolicious
03 Jul 2008 07:09

I mean clearly he does nt respect me to do such a thing, I wanna hit him where it hurts the most- in his pockets- just so he knows never to disrespect woman like that Sam2say it's ur sista who is wrong(no respect for u) im not saying da guys is a saint.......hala @ me if u need help to shaya them....Monchooza im with you kill them,,,make it look like an accident .........lol.

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 07:11

@KeleFb..... I dnt have 2 give it up to just anyone, like ma sista, this is a question of MORALS

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 07:13

@ STRoli

hala @ me if u need help to shaya them..

Halla Back, i need those tips

Cody
03 Jul 2008 07:14

hai maan answer my question! while you are at it, how is your sister exactly?

andi01
03 Jul 2008 07:15

What ur sister is bad, it is pure betrayal at its best, isnt it a known rule between friends and sisters that u dont shag each others ex.
You know what, the best advice I can give you is this, just ignore the whole thing, 4get u ever dated that mafacka and love ur sister like u have always. Ur sister is ur blood dont let "hornism" come between you, yes she did you wrong but "in life our loves one are bound to hurt us at some point but its our duty to forgive them". Dont let the mafacka think that he is God's gift when it comes to women, he cna even do sisters. especially bcoz zange umtswebele.

What ur sister did is wrong, but be the bigger person, dont fight fire with fire, you know mos, that 2 wrongs dont make a right. Eventually they will both see that what they did was wrong and that unfair wont last, u know mos that "guilty feet have no rhythm and so do guitly hearts, they have neither direction no ambition",

Shadow
03 Jul 2008 07:20

Ur sister is somethin' else. Both your sister and him are equally to be blamed.
My advise is..Let it go...let them do their thing. It wont last anyway.

Strolicious
03 Jul 2008 07:21

Sam2say>>>>okay let start from the begining ...why u broke up with that guy,who dumped who?

carino
03 Jul 2008 07:21

Sam2Say, The guy is a manDont stress about him.. he saw punani and he thought... wow! Men live on pu$$y, its their daily bread.

Your sister yena, lacks girl-pride.

Just say to your sister that you hope she used protection... be the better person in all this.. coz if now nawe you got *take up arms and kill*, you'll be proving to be just like them.

So, take a deep breath.. you are too much of a woman to bring yourself down like that.

carino
03 Jul 2008 07:23

... if now nawe you got *take up arms and kill*,...

meant... if nawe you gonna

carino
03 Jul 2008 07:28

Felfel... you see???....

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 07:29

DAkie andi01, waise words indeed, its nt easy though.

@Cody, No I dnt love the guy anymore, mara that does nt make what they did right......how is your sister exactly? My sister and I dnt exacly see eye 2 eye, we are always at it, we are nt close at all

andi01
03 Jul 2008 07:32

You'll be suprised that u r stressing out kanti the guy has a tiny totoloz lol

carino
03 Jul 2008 07:34

andi01... only seeing your reply now... I wouldnt have said anything if I sw it before... Wise words indeed. Now, this is exactly the reason I missed you so much yesterday.

sam2say, you know waht to do now.... akere??

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 07:34

@ Stroli, I broke up with him coz I was going thru a lot then and he wasn't helping to be around at all 2 be around, so I let him go.

carino
03 Jul 2008 07:37

LOL @ the small totololozi...

If this prosecutor guy is anything like Ndalamo's laywer, i'm sure its small, and it erects ka *slow-motion*

andi01
03 Jul 2008 07:38

I know its not easy my sweetheart, but be positive its agood thing that u never gave it 2 him, i just hope that ur sister has her eyes open, what goes around comes around. How wud she feel when he starts flirting with her friends. Coz she showed him that its the right thing to do. At the end of teh day, ur sister has more 2 lose than u, but she is just too horny to care. What if u decided 2 stop talkin 2 her bcoz of this, of course she wudnt mind at first that would give her and that mafacka something to say about,

Her: Hee watsiba keng love, my sister isnt even speaking 2 me lately
Him: ignore her, she is jealous, i never really like her i hav always wanned u but was 2 scared 2 say. U r the prettier one. She will get over it. (simple translated as, I hate ur sister coz i neva shagged her, i am datin u to hurt her and also bcoz I know u will give it to me, & I dont care what happens betwwen u & ur sister, when i am done with ur punani, i am gone and u will sort each other out)

youngtodie
03 Jul 2008 07:40

@ andio1 " tiny totoloz hehehehehe ,eish it can be true yazi"

andi01
03 Jul 2008 07:43

@ carino If this prosecutor guy is anything like Ndalamo's laywer, i'm sure its small, and it erects ka *slow-motion* LOL, dont wori about our responses being similar, akere watseba mos gore great minds think alike.

broke up with him coz I was going thru a lot then and he wasn't helping to be around at all , so I let him go. If u let him go once, bliv me u can do it again, and the reason u left him for is valid, I know u dont want him back but it just hurts that ur sister of all people is taking over.

andi01
03 Jul 2008 07:45

kanti the guy has a tiny totoloz lol, the is meant for humour, u guys know my style I say anything to make you smile. but ke serious guys some people fight for weeks for some1 kanti he has a bullet between them legs.

pariri
03 Jul 2008 07:48

@ Sam2Say, even if u're not close with ur sister still that doesn't give her the right to do what she did, ucinga njani mara

Fluffy Head
03 Jul 2008 07:50

1. Am I crazy to be angry becoz he is my ex?
It is well within your right to be angry.
2. What was my sister thinking Bantu? That we were just “friends”?
Only your sister can answer that
3. What does one do when they r in this predicament?- I thought of breaking his windows when he comes
here the next time, I mean clearly he does nt respect me to do such a thing, I wanna hit him where it hurts the most- in his pockets- just so he knows never to disrespect woman like that
He does not respect you neither does your sister (more so her cause she's your sister) If I were you I'ld dump both...Man already dumped so its cool...Sister, give her atleast 4years silent treatment...That will punish her. You won't be first one not in good terms with their siblings
4. My sister would sleep with anything that passes her eyes as long as its flashing money, and yes this guy is moneyd, she actually asked my other sister if the two nice cars he drives are his…. I mean, was that any of her business?
Again only your sister can answer this

5. Did I have anything to do with this by not sleeping with his, I mean does that give him the right to do what he did?
You did not sleep with him, good for you girl. So its really his loss. Don't worry. The dude was your ex, so why are you bothered by he does with his life. The one person you should be concerned about is your sister

6. This is specially to the guys, would you guys ever think of doing such a thing, if yes why?
I'm a girl and I don't have a sister so yah...I can't answer that

pariri
03 Jul 2008 07:54

and it erects ka *slow-motion* LOl @ carino
@ andi01 (simple translated as, I hate ur sister coz i neva shagged her, i am datin u to hurt her and also bcoz I know u will give it to me, & I dont care what happens betwwen u & ur sister, when i am done with ur punani, i am gone and u will sort each other out)
this is soo true sana

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 07:56

@andi01, I love you her, him reply, o bua nnete.

the small totoloz, is so right, I thinkd that was one of the reasons I did not give it up, I did a hand job on him once and hai boo, I thought mos mo ke tlo i strafa!!!

Madamzee
03 Jul 2008 07:57

Sho!! your own sister? you have a right to be angry whether you gave it up or not, just let them be, like all the bloggers are saying, it wont last. but if it does, dont hold this against your sister, love is blind, it can take over your mind sometimes.
what goes around comes around.

andi01
03 Jul 2008 08:03

Yazi Sam2say sweetheart I dont mean to contradict myself here, but i love looking at things in all angles, I have a few question to ask you first.

How much do u love ur sister
Is her hapiness important to you
Do you have any feelings for this guy
What matters most to you "blood or water"
Did u ever hav any hopes of u and this guy havin a future 2geda

felfel
03 Jul 2008 08:07

Yep, i see Cary Cary........lol

myname
03 Jul 2008 08:18

Some people are so cold. Tell ur sista she must NOT practise what she sees on Bold & the Beautiful. This is Earth. As Andy said what goes around comes around my love. Just be u darling yes its gonna b hard but we are all survivers & no one told us that its gonna b eazy. B the gud woman darling & leave both these rats

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 09:05

@andi01... I see where u getting at with these questions, mara tyhey are irelevant, firstly my sister is the one that askes for the guys number and she called him wa verstaana....so I mean???

monchooza
03 Jul 2008 09:14

why is it that once women are over with guys they start telling people(girlfriends) about his small TOTOLOZI...but uma nisenonke you dont say a word about his privates????

andi01
03 Jul 2008 09:17

I see where u getting at with these questions, where am I getting at??? Yazi Sam2say, i know you are hurting but the first step to healing is being able to view the situation from all sides, acceptance and bhla bhla bhla. When we hurt we turned 2 blame other people just to ease the pain. i just wanna make sure that u dont bcom angry with ur sister for something that means nothing to you.

andi01
03 Jul 2008 09:22

LOL @ monchooza, u know what, women i designed to hang on and beleiev that things will change. I guess after a while the guy starts f%%%#$ng up and women realise that rhhaa i was doing him a favour kaloku. tahts when we get angry and start blabbering. i heard one lady saying the other day "hay shame umncane umshini ka Mfaniseni kodwa ngiyethemba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngizobe sengiwejwayele" and her friend was like "yebo sisi bekezela kuzolunga", and i was like WTF, if its small its small ke.

zapiro
03 Jul 2008 11:26

Sam2say..
He is a d..khead.im so sorry this had to happen to you.But is this all ur telling us?unt yu leaving sum info..coz ..i c sum competition here.well he is comp'ting with yu and so s yo sister.liv them and save yo energy for healing phase.wen yu throw a stone up in air wer daz it land ..back to the ground.(wat goes around cums around heavier)just be ther for yo sister wen shes hurt by this SOB.

Tshd21
03 Jul 2008 11:38

In my best Justin Timberlake voice *But that's okay baby 'cos in time you will find....what goes around goes around goes around and comes all the way back around*....

cnhlanhla
03 Jul 2008 12:39

@ andi01.........wonderful advises u giving here.

@sam2say.........i only have this set of word for u,something is only good or bad depending on how u choose to view it.

Sam2say
03 Jul 2008 14:22

@ zapiro, en nou???

zapiro
03 Jul 2008 14:48

@ Sam2say
en nou???Eish wat have I done manje Joe?

Firstdvd
03 Jul 2008 15:49

Your sister asked for his number...A MAN HAD TO DO WHAT A MAN HAD TO DO! Blaim no one. It wasn't meant to be. Ur both history with ths dude. Save your energy and don't let this thing stress u. Life goes on.

Beyonce Knowles Bee
03 Jul 2008 18:05

Mtana sekhaya first i must really point this out the your sis and did dude don't respect you but that's beside the point as you have already found that one out. Ask your sister first and find out if really she thinks money is really important that she can actually loose all the humanity for that!!! As for breaking his window don't. it's not worth it he is just jerk with alot of money and does not know what to do with it you break it he has you arrested and the next day he replaces the window and what you already have a criminal record for what??? look at it this way Bad Carma can actually come back to him, what you do to others always come back to haunt us you know!!!! but perrsonally i think ukuthi when people are so evil the best way is to leave them they deserve each other and they will one day wake up and wanna come back to you and say sori and they may find that you are just at peace with everything. Don't stress yourself some much with people who don't respect you...

You might be history with the Dude but for your sister to make a move at him or vice versa was just plain wrong.... Lesson your Sister, your Frend's Man is a no go area. No matter how good the offer might be... Please leave them they will realise that you are a person and you have feeling no matter how old the relationship but you will always feel betrayed no matter what happens but then.. ask yourself this even if it happens that your boyfrend of old history passes you going with this girl you don't know you always feel very betrayed neh!!! Sure it's life now it's even worse for you to feel it from your sister!!!

Let them be !!!! they will need you one day!

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