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President JZ fourth time lucky

Written by makisto from the blog Frankly Speaking on 23 Apr 2012
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President Jacob Zuma married his long-time fiancé Bongi Ngema on Saturday 21 April. The ceremony, known as umgcagco, took place at the President’s home in Nkandla, KwaZulu-Natal. 

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The entire village was palpable with joy as the villagers couldn’t hide their joy to as they eagerly waited to witness yet another presidential wedding. 

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President JZ and his new wife later participated in a traditional competitive celebratory dance (ukugqumushela) by the ikhetho (groom's party) led by the groom (JZ) and the ithimba (bridal side) led by the bride (Bongs). 

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The wedding reception was held on Saturday and yesterday, where umabo took place, and the bride showered the groom's family with gifts. 

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The President's three wives Mrs Sizakele Khumalo-Zuma, Mrs Nompumelelo Ntuli-Zuma and Mrs Thobeka Madiba-Zuma attended the event. 

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President JZ and Bongs have a seven-year old son, Sinqumo. 

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“The new Mrs Zuma had already been part of the spousal office machinery in terms of administrative support so there will be no changes due to the wedding”, a media release by the controversial Presidential Spokesperson Mac Maharaj reads. 

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The City Press reports: “Ngema hails from Umlazi township, south of Durban, and has numerous qualifications, including a business degree.” 

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At the wedding, First Daughters could be seen having a ball at their dad’s wedding. 

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President Zuma was also married to home affairs Minister Nkosasana Dlamini-Zuma but their union ended in 1998 and the President’s other wife committed suicide in 2000. 

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The media was barred from attending the wedding and wasn’t allowed to take pictures with powers that be claiming the Presidential wedding is a private affair and has got nothing to do with the public. 

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What about public interest? I ask myself! Phela this is our President we are talking about. 

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Nevertheless, we are so happy for him that all went well and we wish the newlyweds a wedded bliss and may they be blessed with more love, joy, happiness and many children. 

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I understands the President and his new bride will not be going on honeymoon yet as the President still has to attend to matters that involve administering the country and try to build prosperity for all. 

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Those who are well known for thriving on being Presidential critics are these time around silenced as JZ “paid for the expenses from his own pocket and no state money was used”, said Mac Maharaj. 

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Mac said reports in the media suggesting the state bore the maintenance costs of Zuma’s wives was incorrect, reads an article on the City Press online. 

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“The spouses pay their own living or household expenses, be it food, mortgages, lights, water and so forth. Nothing is paid for by the State in the four households of the spouses. They live in private homes,” he said. 

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The article goes further to state: “The presidency did provide logistical and administrative support for spouse participation at state and official functions and provided a total of 60 domestic economy class flights per a year for child and child-minder travel. Transport costs for school-going children were also included.” 

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Otherwise, the living expenses of Zuma’s children were borne by the family and not the state, Maharaj said. 

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May the President enjoy loving his new wife and the other three wives. We wish him all the best in loving all of them as experience from us young stars shows loving just one woman is a mission and a half!



111 Comments

makisto
23 Apr 2012 12:16

Minah
23 Apr 2012 12:20

Aike this ladies are not jeolous shame and yeah another tender for the fouth wife

Mrs Chix
23 Apr 2012 12:22

eeehhhh no comment

Minah
23 Apr 2012 12:24

Makisto how could you say love, joy, happiness and many children.

Friend
23 Apr 2012 12:35

The other wives don' look happy though, who would vele.  It is compulsory for the other wives to attend the ceremeony? I mus say these are a rare strong breed of women who don' mind sharing.  But hey it comes with benefits though. But why does Mr. Prez. preferes to marry after having had children with these women?

Minah
23 Apr 2012 12:38

I think Khoza's daughter will be next. Fake smiles on the president's wives shape ke tshaba zaka le bholo

Friend
23 Apr 2012 12:39

Take a closer luk @ pic 17, kukonwabo'ku? I wonder who gets it between the sheets 5 times a week!! sharing is good but not like ths...., i want him all to myself

Green.arrow
23 Apr 2012 12:40

Yaaa ne.

bomyy
23 Apr 2012 12:43

if you are a lady in your 30's you are unmarried then please submit your cv's to Zuma, he might have a huge wedding for you and u can get married to the president!

I like(not) what the president is doing, he is helping out ladies who have no hope of getting married due to old age or as we say it in Xhosa (badudelwe ngujambase)

Friend
23 Apr 2012 12:49

@Bomyy if you are a lady in your 30's you are unmarried then please submit your cv's to Zuma.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Other Qualification

Be fat, light in complexion, hv his child first, don' b possessive or jealousy

Guava4
23 Apr 2012 12:53

Dear makisto remove manychildren,i dont wish them harm or happines

Minah
23 Apr 2012 12:59

Other qualifications - You must be Zulu and have a history of dating older men like Joe Mafela

Friend
23 Apr 2012 13:01

@Minah... history of dating older men like Joe Mafela

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Death by laughter. yeah tht too.

Friend
23 Apr 2012 13:01

@Minah... history of dating older men like Joe Mafela

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Death by laughter. yeah tht too.

goldie
23 Apr 2012 13:31

@bommy, not just that,

If any lady wishes to be a first or is it a fifth now, or you ever wish to be married to a president, act now or forget it you will never be. JZ is very generous in promoting everybody who doesnt have a lot to offer but is willing to share

blueroze
23 Apr 2012 13:48


Bosso ke JZ, 

A husband
A Divorcee
A Widower
A Boyfriend
and A Fiance


love, joy, happiness and many children

Sobza
23 Apr 2012 14:06

Wazinceda ke kodwa uNkosazana Zuma....clearly uMsholozi likes them fresh and plumpy. I wonder if the ladies will still be around when he is frail and he can no longer perform.

I used to ask myself if Graca does get any action from uTata, phela the old man was 81 when he married Graca and at that age I don't think the waist is as flexible as it is when one is young and fresh.

caro
23 Apr 2012 14:12

lol @ you guys.

lemme add to your list
if you want to starve with horniness for the rest of your life and get it only once in six months, and it gets even harder its wont be that strong. he is not 26.

caro
23 Apr 2012 14:14

@ sobza haikhona sobza hahahahahahah....yerrr..

makisto
23 Apr 2012 14:18

Your comments are all killing me. Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, you are guys are something else yazi...

Cnglemother
23 Apr 2012 14:26

andisarhali!im not fat nor light skinned-sorry for me.who cares about good sex if you fly first class and kids private schooling.isex ayityiwa bakithi!

babye
23 Apr 2012 14:31

BOSSO KE MANG 

KWA KWA KWA KWA KWA  you gys just made my day

Sobza
23 Apr 2012 14:33

Cnglema, can you really be a nun for the rest of your life? Women have needs and skomoring is not an option, you clearly don't need a flacid or tired tombolozi. 

There are so many women in relationships right now, they have it all...the money the life but when they go to the bedroom...it's a nightmare ayivuki and some end up having toyboys who will bring them back from the dead.

Mathaz
23 Apr 2012 14:34

You guys are funny ..........

Haauwa i refuse, Mac Maharaj is not telling the truth, phela all the wives have some sort of PA and a unit in the presidency called spousal support, we do support his family somehow.

I wonder if MaNtuli still gets to see him after she cheated with the bodyguard...

Sobza
23 Apr 2012 14:37

@ Tazteeq....I think there is some sort of arrangement

Monday - Mantuli
Tuesday - Thobs
Wednesday - Khummy
Thursday - Dibongs
Friday / Saturday / Sunday - whoever gets lucky

Impondokazi
23 Apr 2012 14:38

yho hay shame........... but this is the risk u take if u fall for a Zulu guy mos, am i right?? *their tradition is so unfair*

hay shame i'll just stick to my lovely xhosa guys and their roll on's *okhwapheni*, i'd never stand this yhuuu

makisto
23 Apr 2012 14:41

*faints*

bomyy
23 Apr 2012 14:45

hayini guys Zuma is too old to have sex everyday, so its
@ Sobza
Jan - Mantuli
Feb - Thobs
Mar - Khummy
Apr- Dibongs
May - its back to number one

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 14:46

There will be a fifth wedding soon, for the Khoza lady.

bomyy
23 Apr 2012 14:47

If i was his first born son bendingeke ndibayeke omam nci, lol lol lol,

bomyy
23 Apr 2012 14:48

Zuma has a target, he must get married 10 times before stepping down as a president, he is investing and taking chances, just in case some wives want to leave him when he is no longer president, They can not all leave

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 14:49

Mac Maharaj can't even lie convincingly . The ineptitude in ANC is sickening.If you can't lie well,is it service delivery you can do well? Own pocket my foot!! There is nothing in that pocket.

Sobza
23 Apr 2012 14:53

@bomyy....JZ, has a machine gun that works like no other, it's clear he likes sex....21 offsprings says a lot about his libido.

Mathaz
23 Apr 2012 14:56

JZ takes Imbiza time and again, as Robert Mugabe would say *he is as fit as a fiddle*.  Please do not forget the many girldriends he has that he has to fit in his tight schedule.  Mara guys, in all honesty, where does he get the time to be a husband, lover, boyfriend,father and a president?

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:01

@mathaz,he has the time to be all things you mentioned apart from the president part. That is why things are messed up like this.

bomyy
23 Apr 2012 15:10

lol lol, let us face reality, there is no way Zuma sexes all these women, i think he just gets service form girlfriends or a new wife, then when the gf gets preg he marries her and finds another gf while sexing the latest wife as well! there is no way he can be giving it to all of them.. i stand to be corrected though

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:11

@bomyy, these women must have good hands as i hear it comes handy in the absence of a partner.

Mathaz
23 Apr 2012 15:12

@mbulela mara i blame the ANC constituency who voted for him and now cry foul, they knew that his moral values are dubious but they wanted a demagogue (i just learned this word from Mail and Guardian).

Friend
23 Apr 2012 15:16

Who ever invented VIAGRA is making millions, phela Mr. Prez needs it, all these wives, fiancees & galfrnds, can imagine i foursome with Makhummy on top moaning wit pleasure as the other 3 play with themselves.....

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:16

@mathaz, you should read M&G more often.

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:18

@friend, you have killed me. Makhumalo will probably only do missionary. She seems too strict for any other style and she is too serious minded for 3somes and 4somes.

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:19

JZ is proof that with a mixture of baby oil and Viagra you can service a whole clan of ladies. Lesson learnt.

makisto
23 Apr 2012 15:33

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*cremated*

VusiK
23 Apr 2012 15:36

Eh ... Bantu ... Hayi ke' .... eh ... bantu ... hayi-ke' ..... niyakhuluma niyazi ..... eh ... bantu ...

Sobza
23 Apr 2012 15:41

demagogue (i just learned this word from Mail and Guardian).

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....Lord help us

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:42

cremation is unafrican. your gogo will be ashamed of you.

VusiK
23 Apr 2012 15:43

@Mbulela ... don't let looks & frown fool you .... All my 3/4-somes were mostly with the most matronly looking girlfriends ... It's the younguns who try to hit that "I don't do that" tip ... "I'm like ummmmmmmm ... it's OK", (you going to not be doin' that by yourself after tonight ) .... There's more freaks in the older set than the young 'n pretty ... but then ... none of JZ's inventory is young, or pretty .... It's a party at Mahambandlopfu hey !!! ... but the washline must be worth a pic !!!

babye
23 Apr 2012 15:44

death by all your comments madoda huh

VusiK
23 Apr 2012 15:46

JZ seems to be the kind of guy whose house rule is "No panties in my house" ... everyone's supposed to be ever-ready

makisto
23 Apr 2012 15:46

cremation is unafrican. your gogo will be ashamed of you.
*cardiac arrest*

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:52

@vusiK, he must have been a Boy scout leader. Motto : BE PREPARED.

makisto
23 Apr 2012 15:52

JZ seems to be the kind of guy whose house rule is "No panties in my house" ... everyone's supposed to be ever-ready
Guys, phela I'm in an open plan office, everyone is surprised why I'm so laughing out loud so hard. Stop it now ok, kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Seriously now though, the article isn't the entertainment, the entertainment is in the comments

mbulela
23 Apr 2012 15:57

With Johnson's baby oil in every room of the house,even the loo. He is ready to go. Ever prepared.

VusiK
23 Apr 2012 15:59

JZ IS the Duracell Bunny !!! keeps goin' & goin' & goin' & goin' & .....

Mathaz
23 Apr 2012 16:02

*No panties in my house* kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

poshspice
23 Apr 2012 16:02

Msholozi is our Hugh Hefner with his playboy mansion e Nkandla....and he loves them with 'some body'....But I bet most men wish they were bold like Msholozi...instead of pretending to monogamous

VusiK
23 Apr 2012 16:02

@Sobza ... "Demagogue" ... I don't know what it means ... But It's Provocative .... (my favourite line from a hip-hop song)

VusiK
23 Apr 2012 16:04

@Posh ... You have not met me yet ... I'm JZ's role model ! (The sister's don't last though, lol ... Ahhhh ... the power of CHOICE !) ... got to love the times we live in.

goldie
23 Apr 2012 16:22

@friend, ifoursome?? i feel for the poor bed or ther even a bed to fit them all?

but hey they are big and have meat at all the right places the floor is more comfortable and JZ wont have to worry about the bones and the uncomfortable floo, he chooses well!

@posh  'our HUGH HEFNER' *****dead******

bomyy
23 Apr 2012 16:49

 ifoursome?? i feel for the poor bed or ther even a bed to fit them all?
hahahaha same bed bonke la bantu? hai m sure benzela elaunge, kune sex lounge kwa Msholozi, at 9pm everyday the lounge bell rings and everyone is expected to be there, all ready for "umshini wam"

Cnglemother
23 Apr 2012 16:54

kwa-kwa-kwa@y'all!

Cnglemother
23 Apr 2012 16:58

kwa-kwa-kwa@y'all!by the way akukho noyi1 ongemamafutha lol!

Busa
23 Apr 2012 18:25

My President is a real man,how can he cope with Four Wives,maybe next year we will witness another wedding.

suzzy82
23 Apr 2012 20:40

one word for lotata lisoka lamanyala shame ,u J-Z lowakhona he need a young lady that will cause a havok in that his Old head imfikise epark station apho zipakazonke

Cnglemother
24 Apr 2012 07:35

i think the last three wives were married just to cover up his womanising and promiscous antics as a statesman,had he been a normal joe he would had these affairs freely with no obligation to marry them.he's cut from the same cloth as your Belusconis and DSK's of this world just short of boonga-boonga parties!i love the contrast on the type of women the above mentioned are interested in,pretty slim,pretty fat and normal looking.

Cnglemother
24 Apr 2012 07:38

i wonder if he ever worries about STI's koMaNtuli abavulela namabodyguards.uyambona nje uMaNtuli uyazithandela kwisex.

mbulela
24 Apr 2012 08:26

@cnglemother, he worries about STI but i guess that is what the baby oil is for.

Chix
24 Apr 2012 08:28

Haa haaa haa you guys yhooo hayi niyamenza uPresident... wonder if he has a TVSA account to see all these comments... *DIRTHbyALLofYOURcomments*

bomyy
24 Apr 2012 08:38

kanti where is Khanyi Mbau? if she was still her old self he would sex Mr Pres untill he agreed that Khanyi was the only one for him and he would devorce the rest of them wivrs and stay with her, that is what mr pres need, islenda that is young and enegertic and which will not give him a break!!! the reason why he does not eve get satisfied is because abo wifey bayashesha ukukhathala!

MMABOTSWANA
24 Apr 2012 09:41

Morning TVSA Family! am new here... Your comments just made my morning iyooo cant stop lolling! Mara the last pics eish...the pres daughters ga bana dress sense (istyle-nyana) they jus look like village girls

@NomhleN
24 Apr 2012 10:07

Okay my day was just .....well bleh.... but after reading ur comments I just cnt stop laughing.... url just killed me...thx 4 making my dae... Lol Bosso kemang? KePresident 4 being able to munch on 4  kukus at the age of 70.... ustrong....

bomyy
24 Apr 2012 10:15

Mara the last pics eish...the pres daughters ga bana dress sense (istyle-nyana) they jus look like village girls

that is because they are village girls, their father becoming a president did not change them, lol, that other one is not even wearing a small hill, who goes to a celibrity wedding wearing pumps and has a push back on the head? lmao!! okare le moriri wateng ase wa relaxiwa, hahahahahaha, thatha JZee

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 10:23

lollest @ village people ! Lare Bosso keMang? kere bosso kemotho a-jang kuku tse 5 & arane country goseng ....

Friend
24 Apr 2012 10:32

Hez other name is Manyoba.

mangqezu
24 Apr 2012 10:45

Whatever love portion JZ uses is very strong all this love amongst the wives and kids everyone all smiles and one big party smh !!!! But I'm sure isomiso kuMaKhumalo cos that's what usually happens to the first wife..... ngoba esabusy eqhubeka nokushela uMsholozi usithathaphi iskhathi sokuservice amakhosikazi akhe....

mangqezu
24 Apr 2012 10:45

Whatever love portion JZ uses is very strong all this love amongst the wives and kids everyone all smiles and one big party smh !!!! But I'm sure isomiso kuMaKhumalo cos that's what usually happens to the first wife..... ngoba esabusy eqhubeka nokushela uMsholozi usithathaphi iskhathi sokuservice amakhosikazi akhe....

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 11:03

I met this woman recently ... & her approach is that she wants to be my wife (not girlfriend or anything casual ... the woman is dead serious focused) .... but she will not even consider closing the deal without me considering marrying another woman ... I have this woman I have perved for yonks years , so I have to chase after the fantasy woman while the main candidate waits for me to complete the task. In the meantime, the serious marriage candidate throws her cousin into the mix ... but it is too late to withdraw from the fantasy woman, so I'm faced with the possibility of three serious wife candidates instead of two ... all within a month. All three are pro-polygamy, and all 3 are extremely interesting people & all 3 are not interested in a causal relationship. I am so grateful to be in mourning ... ukuzila kungisindisile ... I'm thinking of extending the mourning period just to study them further. Very interesting times we live in.

Favoured
24 Apr 2012 11:10

hay ke Vusi tjo

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 11:16

Favoured, the best part is the dialogues, I am enjoying the dialogues more than anything else ... perhaps it is because I am the one pursued instead of the convention

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 11:18

I have not been shela'd in so long it is very refreshing

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 11:50

The shoe (top one) in the Zando ad is such an awesome pattern, ...... Why do they use a white one ... spoils everything ... That show is meant to be black or navy ... ONLY !

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 11:54

The Zuma family is sooooooooo living its fantasy ... attention (unscrupulous money), a strange fame & an even stranger fascination by the populous (globally) ... A brilliant scriptwriter should get off their ass and write a trans-gen soapie concept on them ... so many layers of story & so many stories within stories .... & the interactions ! There is a great opportunity for the right kind of writer here ! WHERE ARE THE CREATIVES? and why are they not capitalizing?

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 11:55

sorry ... I meant shoe

Ntlewame2
24 Apr 2012 11:55

OH VusiK are you mourning?...Sorry for your loss....the last time I saw comments about your lovelife was when your wife was nursing?........anyway i dont blog much so outdated with news.

This thing of more than 1 partner is increasing........its so discouraging and yet encourages one to pursue one's life goals or find out why you are alive..........

Even our brothers who knows The Truth..........cant keep faithfull.......i take the secret dirty sms' are being unfaithful.......at least Zuma is marrying them......(not to say i will agree to such)......

When we were young and o rata dijo/nama they will give you a sheep's tail to munch and they will stand there ka thupa so that you finish it all........all that fat forced in your throat....

Maybe men needs such....as they wake up........a plate

Impondokazi
24 Apr 2012 12:01

lol yazi i ddnt notice the pumps kwaaaa mxm

lol Vusi, we can get a lot of Intersexion series in this family

lmao u bloggers are silly

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 12:13

@Ntlewame2 ... Yes, our son passed on. The wife left ... The life-choice subject is a touchy one for most people. & yes, the sms is cheating. People do need to fanatical about truth, & as you know from my old writings ... truth is everything, so I am entertaining the new direction I have been invited to consider because there seems to be an absence of agenda and a lot of truthful intent from/ by the women involved... and at least I am not the one initiating it this time. Men are like women ... there is no difference ... I found in my experience, that the women are the more accomplished cheats & liars, and the men are consummate cowards. I'm on this train & I'm enjoying the interactions ... the two cousins are coming to Mzantsi late July /early August for a visit * the model fantasy will be visiting December (she's busy with this show she's on till September ... but I'm dreadfully scheduled between September & December), then I have to put them in the same space next year & scan for agenda and territorial-ism & materialism ... If I'm comfortable ... I'll also go "All-in" .... but I will be honest, the prospect of 3 very intelligent & attractive wives is not only exciting, it is highly intimidating & daunting.

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 12:17

@Ntlewame2 ... When in a relationship & commitment ... I am extremely faithful ... but I make it extremely difficult for someone to be in a relationship & commitment ... women have to prove they are as serious about being with me as they make it difficult for me to prove the same. The tragedy of Mzantsi women (especially because I likes 'em) is that they never take ownership & responsibility for their existence in relationship ... everything has to be the man's burden to carry ... I find that unacceptable .... if anyone wishes explanations .. refer to the old articles & responses to other articles ... I am not going to re-hash.

mangqezu
24 Apr 2012 12:49

I've always mantained its betta to be a serial monogamist than to cheat or be a polygamist.  Even if Zuma does eventually marry them galfriends but kuqala ngokujola becos I dont think he comes home and calls a meeting to inform the wives ukuthi ngiqonyiwe namhlanje it comes out eventually but sebeke bajola so kuyefana he's cheating and then openly admits it and the wives are okay with it.

Ntlewame2
24 Apr 2012 14:27

@mangqezu...true that

Impondokazi
24 Apr 2012 14:51

So true Magqezu, and i find JZ's style to be spiteful,there's no remorse for cheating. ................Mna i prefer the cheating husby............ bcoz at least he'll come apologize and tell me he won't do it again *even thou he doesn't mean it*..........than the 1 who is going to say "i'm sorry baby i understand how u feel,but i want to marry her, it's my culture" yhuuu bawo

Ntlewame2
24 Apr 2012 15:47

are there trully men out there who has honestly.......and sincerely......stayed in a monogamus relationship for just 5 years without being tempted to cheat (one night stand-sms-Whatsup-office fling-lunch-time fling) even if they never engaged with the temptation sexually???????


please tell me there are.??????? i want to so much believe that??????.......cause thats what you hear.......but in deep corners lust acts develops

Lela
24 Apr 2012 16:16

Hayi guys Makhumalo can't still be looking for action hle.

Gloryee
24 Apr 2012 16:58

Disgusting old man......Not suitable 4 presidency but King.....shame on u madala

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 18:36

My family & friends used to call me serial monogamist, lol. The difference I noticed in my behaviour was that women did not listen to what I said, be it that I don't want a baby, or I don't want to be married, they & their kin-folk somehow determined that either a pregnancy or some drama would alter my opinion. Fact is ... here in Mzantsi, people do not listen to what the other person says, because men ... like some women, do tell what they'd like & what they don't like, & women then simply delete the information from the realities of the relationships and replace them with their (alternate) realities. No different, women should stop abdicating their responsibility and state clearly at the Shela-ing phase what they will not tolerate... the days of "OK, let us see what happens died long ago, & the payment nowadays for such lax oversight & assumptions generally results in disease & incurable infections" ... If men can be militant about what they will not tolerate (which they are), it is fair for women to step up & reciprocate, and not kiss ass just to have someone ... I find the way our women conduct themselves also to be unacceptable. Msholozi's wives go into their relationships eyes wide open, there is no doubt about what they will find, so I tend not to have anything bad to say about their party because we have to respect their choices.

VusiK
24 Apr 2012 18:44

lol, I used to date a woman called glory ... the prettiest, shapeliest most amazing to look at person on the planet ... absolute eye-candy ....... and that was that !

Favoured
25 Apr 2012 09:30

lol

Naomi Pon
26 Apr 2012 11:02

@Vusik... "the prettiest, shapeliest most amazing to look at person on the planet ... absolute eye-candy ....... and that was that !"
What do you mean by that? Your last sentence...????

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 11:04

@Naomi .... It means exactly what is written

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 12:14

... and an absolutely Horrible experience & memories !

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 12:15

Thank you Tazz ! You're a right proper wingman!

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 12:35

... but the she was a breathtaking sight !

Cnglemother
26 Apr 2012 12:50

kanti ufunani Vusi?how are Zando shoes bakithi?dont know anybody that owns them they are on this massive campaign drive lately and im still not sold.they look chinatownarish for me on email.

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 12:54

It's a great pattern show Cngle Love ... They are chinatown-ish .... It is the suprise that that pattern is there ... hence I noticed. How have you been? Long time hey !

Naomi Pon
26 Apr 2012 14:13

@Tazteeq, Thank u...lol... I feel sorry for Glory though coz VusiK akazazi into ayifunayo..."raised eyebrow" 

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 14:18

... and You know ukuba ngifanele ukufuna ini na?

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 14:23

@Naomi Pon ... If you know what I should want ... do enlighten me so that I can recognise it should it stumble onto me.

Naomi Pon
26 Apr 2012 14:33

Nope....

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 14:34

I can tell you about Glory ... it is history me & my family lived & it makes interesting dinner party talk. But I will tell you only after you share your wisdom about what it is I do not know I want.

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 14:36

& everybody's going to want to hear about Glory, so, don't be a spoiler ... let's debate your thoughts & I will deliver the story when we are finished.

Naomi Pon
26 Apr 2012 14:38

@VusiK...Dn't knw what u want

VusiK
26 Apr 2012 14:45

C'mon, you cannot chicken out now ... you said "VusiK akazazi into ayifunayo..."raised eyebrow"" ... It suggests you know what I should "funa" ... all I am soliciting is your opinion ... we share opinions, knowledge & experience & hopefully get entertained in the process ... I'm not going to attack you, I just wish to hear your assumptions & opinions regarding what you might consider to me my ignorance at not recognizing what I want / need.


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