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Ok people, its a Friday( Yipeeee) and I damn well know that most of you dont feel like working.. But life has to go on and one has to make a living. From information gathered around TVSA blogs when feeling like  ( not willing to work) it turns back to the conversation of chatting about men...Poor beings are being analyzed  so today just TODAY lets give them a break and forget about the cheating they did and all those other things I just cant mention but think about good things.

What good has he done that he is in your life, lets add too and guys tell why she is in your life. Why you fell for them in the first place. It may not be your own partner but someone you know and like or admire. What is it that makes you like them or admire them nje. EG... I know most ladies like umgani wami Monchooza here on the site because of his ghetto telling it as he views it , entlik for sweets and peanuts so lets share those things that make you like the person or his personality. Your friends...... partners...relatives...role models and celebrities.



I know the pic says the Job....so as much as you love the job. Why do you love your Man and Woman incase of the guys. Bad things aside and lets think about the great stuff we go through in life with other people....!


HAPPY FRIDAY YALL.............


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Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 05:36 AM
Positive stuff for a change..... Share it all that makes you like them, and smile when you with them. I know there are those little things.....Come on now.....A Friday without the word totolozi which means small obviously for a change ;-)
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 05:45 AM
I liked him because he was a gentle soul....wouldn't even kill a fly. liked him cause he was so patient with me. liked him cause he smelled good and made me feel smart. Liked him cause he loved me.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 05:45 AM
What good has he done that he is in your life - He bot me my 1st Cellphone whey they were in fashion, tl tl tl,
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 05:47 AM
Thanks guys but not only your partners you supposed to talk about akere....you can go overboard.Access granted!!!!
Reply from: cleve Friday, October 10, 2008 05:48 AM
Great idea TD, I fell in love with him because he was honest about everything.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 05:50 AM
For a change ......No bad things.. Much appreciated keep them coming.
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 05:50 AM
I loved and still love my ex.
because she was like my twin...we had the same silly habits, we were both go getters, we were the same size(in terms of clothes), we drank the same beer, we smoked the same cigarettes, we were both ambitious...its a pity she had a family from hell, and who knows even today after two years sahlukana...i still think she is the one for me even though we have both moved on.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 05:51 AM
Seriously now, I love him coz: he treats me with respect, he understands me and puts up with me when i know um being a pain, 4gives me when um in the wrong, helps around the house with chores, even cookin when i dont feel lyk it,,,
Reply from: TheLady Friday, October 10, 2008 05:52 AM

I love a couple of guys in my life-one that stands out right now is my best friend.. That guy just knows what to say to make my day. He comes to my place at 3 am azolala or to just tell me he is back from somewhere or to say he's got a new girlfriend (which unfortunately is every other day). Besides his womanizing ways he's a really nice person...as a friend-nothing more.

Me and him hold hands and hug all the time, one girl left him for that...but hey that's how we've always been.

Reply from: cleve Friday, October 10, 2008 05:55 AM
monchooza what if your girl is reading this???
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 05:56 AM

I loved my ex and still do.
Because she was my best friend, had same dreams, rather than going for a beer with the guys I would have it while she is having her own drink and we would have a wonderful time. She motivated me, never held back her feelings....always would tell me or show exactly how she feels. Used to wake up in the middle of the night to chat to her or even go to her just becuase we both didnt wanna be alone. Damn...Am tempted to sms her.

Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 05:58 AM
i fell in love with the church i go to right now because it is small and intimate( i grew up going to a very big church where the pastor does not even know half the congregation personally) and i love the fact that, there is still room for improvement, we all love and respect each other.

we dont have ~VIP~ even the Pastor is not a ~VIP~ but a ordinary member of the church. and we all get the attention we need from the church, the Pulpit is not restricted to the people who pay 10% but to all members of the church.

I JUST LOVE HOLLINESS UNION CHURCH (Tembisa)
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 05:58 AM

Love him coz he treats his mom well, he takes care of our family, i remember when we were still dating and i was in pta and him in jozi, was flat broke and had 2 buy the "feminine products", he bot them 4 me in jozi and brot them 2 pta, dat was soo sweet,

Reply from: belz Friday, October 10, 2008 06:00 AM
I love my roomate (guy) because he knows i hate washing dishes and he does that for me, even if i have to do it again coz he sucks at it, i appreciate that he does it without complaints. I love him coz he's like my brother now, he hangs out with me when im bored, i tell him my guy problems and he helps, he always tells me that he has neva met such a strong and beutiful woman in his life, i have since beleived that im a strong woman. I love him regardless of his whoring ways, he's such a whore.
Reply from: belz Friday, October 10, 2008 06:01 AM
I love this blog tdc!!!
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:03 AM
<<<monchooza what if your girl is reading this???>>>
eish then she would know ukuthi i still love my ex.......phela we broke up because of families....she had a kid and my family believed ukuthi, i deserve better than a girl with a buggage...and her family believed that she had to marry the father of her kid because he comes from a very rich family, unlike me...tough life
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:03 AM
he's such a whore----2day we are appreciating them Belzito, lol.
Reply from: lepogo Friday, October 10, 2008 06:04 AM
Aw Lawd....this is soooooo syrupy-where are curses and the catfights?Where is Farai to ruin it with his stupid comments????Or carino pleaaase,Im begging you-take me outta my misery

TDC o dira ka bomo wena!
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:05 AM
I love 2 lady friends becuase they always listen to me when I need them to, they are crazy we can talk elke ding......Damn they are just great people to have met. Whenever I feel like I need some love they always fill that space with their humour.
Reply from: Orie Friday, October 10, 2008 06:06 AM
I love him because he is ugly and i sort of feel secure when i am with him
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:07 AM
Lepogo ska ira jalo my outhi...ore ke dira ka bomo on what?
Reply from: belz Friday, October 10, 2008 06:08 AM
2day we are appreciating them Belzito, lol.> LOL!!! oh, sorry awesto, sorry maan, but he's a great whore.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:09 AM
Where is Farai to ruin it with his stupid comments????Or carino pleaaase,Im begging you-take me outta my misery ...I dont think Farai has 2 do anythin since u have just done it urself.
Reply from: lepogo Friday, October 10, 2008 06:09 AM
@TDC,
this is like a drunken confession session-at 2 am vroeg le skeem sa gago,telling him gore o mo rata jang......Too sweet for u bra-u dont do sweet
Reply from: Centrepiece Friday, October 10, 2008 06:09 AM
I loved my cousin, she used to tell me  if i was wrong and give me advice when i had a problem, and she loved me back! I miss her *why does life have to cheat us of such people*
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:10 AM
LOL @ Belzito..
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:11 AM

I love my Pastor because he has accepted me and has taken me as his own child... To me, he's not just a pastor, he's my father, my mentor, my teacher, my support system, and he calls me "my friend"...

Reply from: mabhebheza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:11 AM
i loved him becoz...he has given me a special gift that no money n the world can replace ....becoz mina naye siya hlanya ihlanya lam that i can tolerate !
In his weird way he understands my needs ...including Good Mdavazo that makes me speak in tongues 

I Luv her coz she gave me life ..she sacrificed hers 4me...she gave me  a gift a gift that others mock others are scared 2embrace others fear,most are sceptic about  but i am proud 2have !!
Reply from: playgal Friday, October 10, 2008 06:12 AM
i love my man 
becoz he knows my heart, fears, dreams aspiratons. he's there when i have a fallout with my girls, parents and when it feels like my world is crashing down. he knows when im hurting and says he's there because he cares.

he feels me understands me, does holds my hands calls me his queen his everything but most of all i love him and respect him for the great person that he is and he is everything in my life because he cares and loves me as much as i do him
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:12 AM
To me, he's not just a pastor, he's my father, my mentor, my teacher, my support system, and he calls me "my friend".....Hope he sees u the same wa y 2, lol, just kidding..
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:14 AM

Reply from: lepogo 10/10/2008 12:04:01 PM
Aw Lawd....this is soooooo syrupy-where are curses and the catfights?Where is Farai to ruin it with his stupid comments????Or carino pleaaase,Im begging you-take me outta my misery 
TDC o dira ka bomo wena!


I'm lost kancane.... uthini, kahle kahle?

Reply from: Orie Friday, October 10, 2008 06:14 AM
I love my friend.. She prays for me when I am down and listens   yes listens to w=me without Judging and unlike others she does not make decisions for me
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:14 AM
Luv her coz she gave me life ..she sacrificed hers 4me...she gave me a gift a gift that others mock others are scared 2embrace others fear,most are sceptic about but i am proud 2have !! *sniff sniff* this feels lyk a Kleenex moment..
Reply from: Best-Achiever Friday, October 10, 2008 06:15 AM
Thanks TDC .
 I love these men in my life
1. My dad ... he is the one of the caring people i'll ever live to know. He trsuted us so much that we failed to dissapoint him whether he sees us or not, he never had issues with our guy friends nor doubt us when we said they are just friends. he gives us much freedom to live life they way we want to as long as we dont forget who we are, what we want and where we are going. He put us first, he hold our interest at heart. he is such a gentleman. He did everything for us with nothing. If there is next life and we had to choose parents ill still take him for a dad.

2.My Boo ... he is such a darling, an absolutely amaizing guy. loving, caring and sweet. He has his own way of telling me when im wrong and never be offended. he notice every change in me, can it be hairstyle, clother, earings, perfume. He bears with my mood swing. Im so not perfect bt the way he traets me you would be assured that im this perfect fragile little ange. oh did i mention that he smell divine. Everytime time i spend with him feels like i have been to heaven looking at angel's eyes.

3. My brother ... oh shem he is so sweet and innocet.

4. all my male friends i love them for telling it like it is.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:15 AM
Ah Lepogo....forget the bad vibes mfethu and embrace life and people in your life. Nna le skeem aint confessing but telling.....or jang skeem?
Reply from: Pooky Friday, October 10, 2008 06:15 AM

heish tdc yah neh

am kinda emotional now thinking of all the wonderful things he's done for me.....ok i need a moment ..... will me back now now *sniff*....

Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 06:16 AM
LOL Orie!

Hayi i'm reserving my comment cause this is a good feeling blog.

like my new boss cause she's hands-off thus giving me space to blog.
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:17 AM
OOh how can i not mention the Queen of my heart...MY MOTHER...
i love this woman...so much that i think i am taking her with me even if i get married.....she has done so much for me, even now being the gwon ass man i am...my mother still picks my ish after me, she still prepares my skhuftin for me every morning..she does my dirty laundry...and all of this from othandweni...

this other day i was eavesdropping....on a conversation my mother was having with other women...they were talking about their Satan sent kids, how their boys were just useless...and my eyes were filled with tears of joy when i heard my mother only saying wonderful things about me...to such an extent that the other women even wished their kids were like me...

I love my mother, she has taught me so much about life and how i should survive out there.....how to treat women...how to become a better person in all situations....i can go on and on because when i talk about my mother i never stop
Reply from: tracy Friday, October 10, 2008 06:18 AM

I love him becoz I dont have to pretend to be someone else we laugh at the same jokes and above all he can compromise

Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:19 AM
And im not in the mood of complementing my recent ex.. Im still bitter and mad.

I love this one kind-of ex coz everytime i used to smile or laugh, he'd look at me and say "go monate mo kae?" that was really sweet.
Reply from: maud Friday, October 10, 2008 06:20 AM
hi
@TDC,
 am i allowed to like the woman in me, the body that god gave me that carries me each and everyday, the heart i have to love unconditionerly, ears that listen to every problem . and the faith that keeps me going , last but not least my family that gives me the reason to live. 
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:20 AM
I love and still do, my late aunt she was my evruthing. Working or not she still made sure I had everything I may need to survive. My late mom... she made me to look at life in a positive manner and do things for myself.

My friend , the dude is crazy does bad stuff even to me but when there is no one for me we together talking sh!t and making another day pass with no worries.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:20 AM
I love my frends coz they listen 2 me and tell me when um being an ass, i love them 4 not judging me when i know what um doing is wrong, love them 4 being there for me @ ol tyms, even when they're far away from me, they are still gr8 help, so thank you 2 ol my frends (including the cyber ones).
Reply from: Cody Friday, October 10, 2008 06:22 AM
I am so loving my boss right now, for today only, it feels like we are finally connecting today, after a year. she spoke to management to give me a second review for the Pretoria banch even it was just for 2 months, the fact that i am getting a 2 salaries from now on because of her makes me love her to bits! I love her! just because of the money, nothing else, even if it will last for a week, or until the money arrives. LOL  

Thanks Nonny for the advice!!
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 06:23 AM
I don't like Beyonce's latest song *sorry*
Reply from: Orie Friday, October 10, 2008 06:23 AM
I love all who hate me cos they give me a reason to be successfull
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:23 AM
I love my Job/Boss/colleagues
I love the Company i work for.....its not everyday you get to hear people say they love their jobs....all they do is complain....I must say I am happy because not even once in my life have i complained about the company i work for or my boss and colleagues. we work so well together...i have been with this company for three years now...and never not even once had i felt like not going to work because of the treatment or work load i get there.....(unless ngine bhabhalas..which has nothing to do with my job/boss/colleagues)
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:23 AM
And im not in the mood of complementing my recent ex.. Im still bitter and mad. Damn Carino, how many ex's do u have??
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:23 AM
I love Nonny because she makes me comfirtable in the cyberworld and she's not scared of playing straight talk with me. She comforts me when i'm down and she makes me laugh when i think the world is falling apart. I love her because somehow she can cyber tell when something is bothering me and also when im in a great mood. I love her because she's got a priceless sense of humour and her attitude rocks. And i love he because she's ma gal.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:24 AM
love this one kind-of ex coz everytime i used to smile or laugh, he'd look at me and say "go monate mo kae?" that was really sweet.>>>
This is what I do and I cant remmebr how I got to do it eheheh anyhow yeah thats so sweat.
yes u are maud.
Reply from: maddie Friday, October 10, 2008 06:25 AM

I loved him because he was different, not like the other guys.

he was a rebel, ghettorish, he'll call a spade a spade, no sweet talk and ish.
he will criticise me to the core and I wouldn't mind. he was hard- core, not afraid to speak his mind. he would have sex with me the ghetto way, not this love making ish. 

we were different but had so much in common, he was a breath of fresh air. no dates, no movies, no flowers, no chocolates, he would take me to his house and f*** the hell out of me. he was my soul mate in the most strangest way.
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:27 AM
i love this blog because i am not much of a complainer... i am always full of praises and appreciation (all those who know me know that)....I love life with its ups and downs...i believe i am destined for much bigger things in life but in the meantime..i love/appreciate what i have.
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:28 AM
<<<she makes me comfirtable >>>
comfortable
Reply from: molibelis Friday, October 10, 2008 06:29 AM
if i get married...............Wll U?
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:29 AM
Thats a cute love story maddie LOL
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:30 AM
Reply from: awelani 10/10/2008 12:23:40 PM
And im not in the mood of complementing my recent ex.. Im still bitter and mad. Damn Carino, how many ex's do u have??
 

lets just say i've been around, galfriend...
Reply from: WhiteSockGirl Friday, October 10, 2008 06:32 AM
I still love him because he made realize that you only truly love someone else, if you love them unconditionally; if you love them with flaws and all.  I love him because he loved me like that. 

I love my family because they love me, support me and always are just there.

I love my best friend cause she is just the best friend anyone can have; everyone person in this world should have a best friend like mine.

I love the person who discovered wine,... and BA knows why!

I love TVSA (including the ever critics) cause it gives me the platform to live out the wannabe writer in me!
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:32 AM

K, cariri..

LOL @ Maddie @ her ghetto lover,,

Reply from: Best-Achiever Friday, October 10, 2008 06:32 AM
Oh My Superstar, My mother ... im so fond of this woman, she raised us with so much love, respect and truth. She taught us to believe and put our trust in God and she was, still is the living example of that. She taught us that Our background and circumstances may have influence who we are but we are responsible for who we become and that has a great impact on what we have become. I would love to be the same mother to my kids as she has been to us. She taght to consider other people and their feelings ... she taught to share whatever little we have with those less fortunate. i could write a book about her.
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:32 AM
I love the fact that i am working on eliminating the word hate in my life, because so far the only person i use the word on is my father.....i know with Gods help ....i will love him oneday
Reply from: Cande Friday, October 10, 2008 06:32 AM
I LOVE my life
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 06:33 AM
I loved my man, coz he was so gentle, caring and soft spoken. He went from his table to ours just to open and pour a can of coke for me.

He always put me first. He doesn’t take any decision without consulting me first. When I’m crying he gives me his shoulder, when I’m sad he puts a smile on my face and most of all he makes me feel like a Queen. I’m always happy and all thanks to him. He’s so supportive financial and emotional. He knows how to make love to a woman trust me. He’s my soul mate.

Reply from: belz Friday, October 10, 2008 06:35 AM

I lvoed my ex coz he was my best friend!!! i would do anything with him, anything, was so comfortable around him and him around me. eish boy ngyakukhumbula yazi.

Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:35 AM
love this one kind-of ex coz everytime i used to smile or laugh, he'd look at me and say "go monate mo kae?" that was really sweet.>>>
This is what I do and I cant remmebr how I got to do it eheheh anyhow yeah thats so sweet.
 

heheheheehh <<<shaking my head>>>
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 06:37 AM
Thanks Nonny for the advice!!
T'was a pleasure Cody and congrats.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:38 AM
And here I am listening to Mary J Blige " Stay Down" Akon and Witney " Like I never left" over and over again......... gosh ke chaisa leng?
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:39 AM
heheheheehh <<<shaking my head>>> Go monate mo kae? LMAO.
Reply from: Cody Friday, October 10, 2008 06:40 AM
I love my roomate, he is such a caring person, he understands me so well! i cant believe i have been soo blind!!!!
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:40 AM
I love my mother... dont have to say the reasons...
Reply from: PY Friday, October 10, 2008 06:41 AM

I luv & mic my classmates(Guyz) from High School(From Grade 6-12)everyday...we had a beautiful relationship with these guyz...in class they would call me from my desk to come and chat wit them...They would make me sit between them (imagine a girl with a bunch of naughty boyz)...then we would chat about everything, they would ask me about the girls staff and i would ask them about the guyz stuff...anything...but after matric(2003) we were seperated coz we had different plans about our future but we still see each other and we keep in touch (But not all of them..its a pity coz i dont know what happened to them, hope they all still alive)....then I met new guyz from Tertiary....they were cool ...reminding me of my old friends....we also clicked...and chat about everything...ITS NICE TO HAVE A GUY AS A FRIEND, I LUV ALL THE GUYZ WHO HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS

Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:42 AM
I love the fact that i am not easily offended....(i think its a God given talent)
Reply from: felfel Friday, October 10, 2008 06:44 AM
I love my friend A he's such a darling and completely understands me and is very straight with me even in the men department. We sleep in the same bed holding each other and talk and cry over issues. I wish I could love him the way he wants cos i know for certain we'd be very happy together as husband and wife. I am sooo proud of him and his ambitious self. The fact that he came to South Africa with nothing, worked as umantshingilane (security guard) to survive even though he's educated, elevated himself to become a Cyber Cafe Manager, has produced his own CD with his own pennies, has faced sooo many hardships in SA that even i have suggested that he just pack up and live yet still He rises.
He makes me believe in myself. I love him. 
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 06:45 AM
@Cody: I love my roomate, he is such a caring person, he understands me so well! i cant believe i have been soo blind!!!!...About tym u admit dat u love ur roomie, what's so hard in admiting hey?
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 06:45 AM
I love Monchooza and he knows i do.
Reply from: Mmathabe Friday, October 10, 2008 06:46 AM
Sorry to be out of the topic. I luv my boyfriend but he's not honest with me. I meet this guy in 2006. He lied to me about his wife, so when tyms goes on i found out that there's some one with him. Ok i ask him about this gues what he say: I was not ready to stay together with her is just bcause she fell preg and her parents chase her away to stay with me and my parents. Ok now my ex boyfriend used to call me, the other day he call me and i was with ths boyfriend. He ask me whose was calling ok i explain to him and he became angry and call that ex back and a moroga. Now the problem is my boyfriend cheat with an ex-girl frnd of my ex boyfrnd. So the day b 4 yesterday my boyfriend visit that girl, so while they were busy chating the ex-boyfrnd of mine call his ex and only to find out that she was with my boyfrnd. Then my boyfrnd became jelous and ask who was calling , after the lady explain to him he ask the lady to send sms telling that ex that don't call again. Yesterday that ex of mine go to that lady and ask y u say i don't have to call u again? She then told that ex that his new boyfriend ask her to do that if he love him then thats why she sent that sms. He ask whose that boyfriend she explain to him and describe him, that ex realise that the guy she's talking about he's my boy friend. so he came to me and tell me everything and i became angry. i ask my boyfriend about this but he told me that he's not inluv with her he only knew her. After that that boyfriend of mine ask the lady why did u tell this guy about us, cause now he told someon that was supposed not to hear this? i don't know what did she say after that. now my boyfriend he's accusing me of having an affair with my ex and ask me why did he told u about that issue.  Pls i need ur advise, what do u think about this boyfriend?
Reply from: molibelis Friday, October 10, 2008 06:47 AM

I love u all.

Reply from: tracy Friday, October 10, 2008 06:48 AM
I Love my sister she is my best friend, she cries with me when I feel down, She never gets angry she is one in a million, Thanks guys I never realized how much she means to me till today bengizoba yini without her in my life.  I LOVE PRE! 
Reply from: tracy Friday, October 10, 2008 06:49 AM
I Love my sister she is my best friend, she cries with me when I feel down, She never gets angry she is one in a million, Thanks guys I never realized how much she means to me till today bengizoba yini without her in my life.  I LOVE YOU PRE! 
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:49 AM
Tjer!!
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 06:50 AM
Ok guys ignore whats not relevant and lets just blog.
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:51 AM
and i love Carino for not khorekthing my spelling mistakes...ngoba mina i just dont care ukuthi ngenze ama typos or not...everybody understands TVSA has no spell check.......karrrino karrino  (in my best italiano voice rolling thos R's)
Reply from: Pooky Friday, October 10, 2008 06:53 AM
I love my stepdaughter. Yazi whenever she's with me, she brings such joy and calmness, .. .   she was sitting right here on my desk on wednesday while i was blogging, her hands were all over the screen and on the phone, pulling my braids ,earings... she was just everywhere around the office and making afine mess....love it when she starts speaking that baby language and that thingy she does with her tiny nose and when she say "thata" (as in take)..oh so cute.........i know it might have upset me at first finding out that i was a stemom n'all........but i have truelly accepted her and am truelly loving her as if she were my own....Kayla you bring me joy baby
Reply from: sjura Friday, October 10, 2008 06:53 AM
@ Mmathabe...........in this topic we are only thinking about the great stuff we go through in life with other people....!
Reply from: Kim Possible Friday, October 10, 2008 06:55 AM
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 06:57 AM
TDC...i think all thats not relevant...YOU MUST JUST DELETE.
Reply from: Charlie Brown Friday, October 10, 2008 07:00 AM
I still love my ex as well for what he was - straight forward. Always telling me the truth and just keeping it real. Loved how he used to make me feel like his boy when watching rugby, his all when we made love and his best friend when it came to the real deal!  Miss him a lot but I have let him go.  

Will also mention my MOM!  Nobody loves her like I do!  She is my everything.  I get teary when I think about it.  She does so much for me without asking for anything in return.  She is truly a blessing. 
Reply from: sjura Friday, October 10, 2008 07:05 AM
I LOVE MY DAD
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 07:07 AM
I love my twin boys, damn being with them just makes me so ooooooo god damn HAPPY.
Reply from: belz Friday, October 10, 2008 07:09 AM
I love my boss so much, i cant explain it!!he's a good man, i was gonna say may God bless him, but i God jsut keeps on blessing him anyway.
Reply from: Onna Friday, October 10, 2008 07:17 AM
I love and so in love with my hubbi because he has always been there for me,he is my bestfriendforever. With him I can be silly,sulky,giddy,scanky,angelic,lazy,hyper and he will say go on my queen and he means it too.The best mdavazo ever ..I love my new friend that I am yet to meet in person, we chat like we have known each other for a long time and he is now like a brother to me.     I love my brohter for always being there for me to talk,shout,cry,do very silly stuff. I so miss him now that I we live so far apart.                   
Reply from: Thesh Friday, October 10, 2008 07:17 AM

Good day everyone, 've silent for some time.

Great article TDC.

I love my mom because even though she doesn't have much material things to offer, she manages to make us appreciate every little things she does for us, even though my brother is an a***s hole.

I love my mentor cause she has a way of making me feel comfortable around her even if she's much older than me, but she's always there for me listening to me, she's like my mother her in Pta, I don't feel alone.

I love my two friends, they always make me laugh, when I 'm down I only need to pick up a phone and all my sadness subsides. though the other one is in Midrand, I don't feel the distance.

I love this site cause there's no way I can spend my day without laughing at all you have to say. There's never a dull moment.

Reply from: PY Friday, October 10, 2008 07:18 AM

I luv my mom...and my dad (although he made mistakes, while he was still young)....sometimes i write poems for my mom to show her my appreciation to have her as a mother ...i must stop now coz i would write a book about my mom...

I luv my friends (female) i-rush/i-cast yam....the ones that i grew up with...its been more than 10 years...we are all proud of that....we have our ups & downs but we luv each other

I love my family (including the extended family)....
pls just scroll up & read maddie's reply that is so my boyfreind I luv him though....
Not 4getting my male friends in Eastern Cape, they would call us the Skwatta Kamp coz I was their only female friend they had, it was very strange for other people...a girl with boys...but we didnt mind coz we knew that we are friends...we keep in touch...hope i'll c them in this years Festive Season...its been a while...m ashamed to even tell the time....

Reply from: felfel Friday, October 10, 2008 07:19 AM
I love my brother to death, no I love him to life. 
I can't imagine him not around. I miss him soo much, i stalk him on mxit sometimes. He's a carefree person, not bothered by much. I sometimes imagine my mum calling to tell me that he is no more and i just cry and i can't finish the picture without him. The piece you wrote for granma after she died gave me insight to your emotions, your heart, your thougths (you don't know that I read it). I love you bro' and i know you love me too......
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 07:21 AM

 I like  Monchooza even id skeem same is exposing me gore ke rata dijo on Facebook.

Reply from: pariri Friday, October 10, 2008 07:22 AM
Tjer!!, LOL @ TDC
Reply from: molibelis Friday, October 10, 2008 07:24 AM
@ Mmathabe,How we help u if u dnt follow the rules? Go Paste yr article and ask that help......Stop spoiling other ppls good things......mane heeeeer.
Reply from: Afrodiva Friday, October 10, 2008 07:24 AM
Love him coz he treats his mom well, he takes care of our family, i remember when we were still dating and i was in pta and him in jozi, was flat broke and had 2 buy the "feminine products", he bot them 4 me in jozi and brot them 2 pta, dat was soo sweet, 

Aaaaaaaaaaaah man thats sweet! Awelani your man is for keeps!
Reply from: Afrodiva Friday, October 10, 2008 07:27 AM
I love him regardless of his whoring ways, he's such a whore. 

hahaaaaaa Belz!
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 07:29 AM
Skeem saka you know I adore you....
Reply from: molibelis Friday, October 10, 2008 07:30 AM
I love my twin boys, damn being with them just makes me so ooooooo god damn HAPPY.TDC u are strong......did u mean Twince? or its just my...........

@ Mmathabe...........in this topic we are only thinking about the great stuff we go through in life with other people....!
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 07:33 AM
I love the fact that i am not working today...just blogging ONLY!!!
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 07:35 AM

I know my outhi...... Same here.

Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 07:35 AM
LOL Mmathabe!!
Reply from: felfel Friday, October 10, 2008 07:37 AM
I love my mother, I love you mama. You raised us on your own, gave up on your own dreams to raise us. I often wonder where would you be had you chosen to live an unburdened life with no kids, left us with granma to fend for ourselves. But you never did. I know your struggles, that's why I don't bother you with questions that would break your heart and yet change my life. You still love us as if we were babies, newly born. Your grandkids are lucky to experience such love. I love you mama.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 07:37 AM
u can say dat agin Afro-D, lemme give him a col..
Reply from: molibelis Friday, October 10, 2008 07:38 AM
I love BigMama PY JP Mstick these girls a my Andizi..........
Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 07:38 AM
I love my Steve-tjie- he made me realise that I am worth more than gold, and that he didnt mind digging for 10 years to get me.
I love TDC, apart from many other reasons he give us all a reason to blog, we addicted to TVSA bcoz of him.
My best friend Vero- she is the only person who truly knows me, her stubborness compliments my naive-vity.
My male friends - they make me feel very special and 12 years old
Carino- she is my first grammar teacher, that I can say "nigga please, stop correctin every f***in" error i make". and get away with it. (without detention of coz)
Toxic- she is the first blockker I bonded with, still is
Nonny-she is one nigga that is as crazy almsot as she is smart, she is great
awelani- she is my best frend, she always check up on me, if i play a disappering act.
WSG & Best achiever-they realise the wisdom in me
Cody- we is nigga's form the west coast,
 
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 07:41 AM
I love schwarma's from Anat...............russian specials from Akalwayo's...........3stack pizza from Debonaires....................Cheese/bacon burger from Wimpy.........................chips from Steers......................A killer stirfry recipe i can hook up.......................My aunt's mince.....................my mom's samp..............tshwatla ya ngono.....................................home made chips................magwinya/liverspread/ special.......................McD'smcFlurry.

Ya'll gotta listen to:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHUBwHtMBQU
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 07:42 AM
i'm hurt...
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 07:45 AM
Love ma boy 2 bits, everyday when i go home, i luk 4ward 2 his hugs and so WET kisses ol ova ma face, love him keeping me strong @ ol tyms, no matter how hard the situation is, not 2 long ago he was in & out of hospi and @ 1 point i wanted 2 break down and cry, he lukd @ me and started smiling, then gave me a hug i so much needed, 

Love my ma 4 giving me hope even when she also has doubts, 4 tellin me evryday dat things are gonna be alryt,
Reply from: PY Friday, October 10, 2008 07:45 AM
I have two siblings....Oh i Luv them dearly...
I dont know which one I luv the most....because hes the only brother that i have, and shes the only sister that i have
My Brother (19) He's fun.....every word that comes out of his mouth just makes me loughs...yesterday he said to my 6 year old couzin brother "everybody has intestines in the bums",I was drinking a drink,I couldnt help it , I just spat it out, loughing out very loud....he does'nt lough too much he just smile after saying his nonsense that alwayz make me loughs...his classmates adore him 
My sister(17) ... she does everything i ask her to do for me without complaining...she loves to lough like i do....we kinda look alike...sometimes people get confused
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 07:46 AM
LOL @ Toxic
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 07:46 AM
LOL @ Toxic
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 07:47 AM
Toxic...basically you just love Mapapa, PERIOD
Reply from: Afrodiva Friday, October 10, 2008 07:49 AM
I love him because he is ugly and i sort of feel secure when i am with him

ROTFLMAO!!! @ Orie, you guys are crazy!! Damn I'm enjoying this..
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 07:50 AM
LOL @ Tox..

ooh i love u 2 andi, for being honest with me, for colin me an idiot when i know um being 1 2 but just dont wana admit. (cyber hug)
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 07:54 AM
3stack pizza from Debonaires
A killer stirfry recipe i can hook up.
McD'smcFlurry. 

Toxic, gal I feel so on the above....
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 07:57 AM
I love my husband,if  wasn't him i will be  selling news papers at BLOED STREET.
i love my child,shis just a miracle baby,she make me strong,to be honest ,she make me respect even a flies,
i love homeless ppl,if i gave them something,i feei good inside,they reminds me myself,i was halfway to be them.
i love life n GOD,they can give you a second chace in life.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 07:58 AM
Nonny-she is one nigga that is as crazy almost as she is smart, she is great
@ Andi01 - Thanks nigga, I love u too hey.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:00 AM
i love my child,shis just a miracle baby,she make me strong,to be honest ,she make me respect even a flies,
LMAO.

I love God for everything he has done for me and all that he will continue doing.
Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 08:00 AM
Khanyisile mbau- we were born on the same date and month- she is proof that things can change drastically for the worst, in a space of 12 months.
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 08:00 AM

Andeeee.....nuthin but luv for ya!!! Nuthin but love!

Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 08:01 AM
@ Nonny- and why to you love me????, if I may ask
Reply from: Simmone Friday, October 10, 2008 08:02 AM
Right now I am appreciating Farai *TVSA's very own*, for his “chicken crossing the road blog”, from the crappy week I was having his blog made me appreciate the value of laughter.

I am appreciating the TVSA creators and maBlockers, the website may get me fired but it’s starting to be an outlet for me. For people that exist in the cyber world, you guys are one of a kind. The catfights, moaning sessions and just utter smack talks, make being at work lately seem easier and less daunting.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:03 AM
its a pity she had a family from hell, and who knows even today after two years sahlukana...i still think she is the one for me even though we have both moved on.
@ Monchy - It shouldn't be about the family, but what u both feel for one another. Something tells me nizobuyelana, coz kuyazwakala ukuthi uyagcwala futhi uyachitheka ngaye.
Reply from: monwy Friday, October 10, 2008 08:04 AM
@Monchwe were the same size(in terms of clothes)

U MUST BE VERY TINY DUDE, lol
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 08:04 AM
Andi, you've hurt me, nigga... so bad...
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:05 AM
its a pity she had a family from hell, and who knows even today after two years sahlukana...i still think she is the one for me even though we have both moved on.
@ Monchy - It shouldn't be about the family, but what u both feel for one another. Something tells me nizobuyelana, coz kuyazwakala ukuthi uyagcwala futhi uyachitheka ngaye.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 08:05 AM
Thanks Andi... I love you because you got understand me and didnt take me for a moron with a big head. Anyhow I think so...

I love some bloggers for not thinking am a stalker type LOL. Most of them write to me with all contact details ehehehe and are women. Strangley I never get tempted to call them.
Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 08:07 AM
De only bokkie, that stands her ground fimly, without being rude or offensive, Cande ek hou baie vir jou my skatteboletjie.

I
love my mum, although she was never there while I was growing up, its OK mum, i am all grown up now, i will make sure you ther for ur grand kids

I love Pooky- she has a big heart, she gets hurt easily and forgives easily, (remember joe, forgiveness heals, both the giver and also the reciever)

If there is one guy, who is very appreciative of the women specie, is monchooza, broer I love you very much for that.

I love myslef (andi, Dineo, keketso. or whatever u call me), I have brought so much hapiness in other peoples lives, and i am proud.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:09 AM
De only bokkie, that stands her ground fimly, without being rude or offensive, Cande ek hou baie vir jou my skatteboletjie.
So true abt Cande, I don't how shoe does it.
Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 08:09 AM
@ Carino-Andi, you've hurt me, nigga... so bad..., forgive me mistress, but i was only confessing my dying love for you, amongst other reasons of coz
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:10 AM
Most of them write to me with all contact details ehehehe and are women. Strangley I never get tempted to call them.
namely TDC?lol
Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 08:10 AM
@Nonny-So true abt Cande, I don't how shoe does it., sy is n meisie van die Kaap, we is mos like dat, you know, but mina ukuthi nje ubaba bekengumzulu, so you see where i got my "controversial" side from.
Reply from: Segololo Friday, October 10, 2008 08:11 AM
you all know why I love King K.. :-)  here's how i see and feel for him

For you by e e cummings

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)
i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)

i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it's you are whatever... Read More a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 08:13 AM
namely TDC?lol>>> It wouldnt be fair.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:14 AM
@Nonny-So true abt Cande, I don't how shoe does it., sy is n meisie van die Kaap, we is mos like dat, you know, but mina ukuthi nje ubaba bekengumzulu, so you see where i got my "controversial" side from. 
LOL @ Andi01 - Now I understand..........
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 08:15 AM
@andi,about your mom,you make me cry.
my love you will give more to your kids,n she will be ther for her  grand kids,let the past be the past,she love you more than you can  know. KEKE bathong.
Reply from: blakrose Friday, October 10, 2008 08:18 AM
I love her because i did not have to earn her love, its unconditional and i am at peace that there is nothing that i can ever do that will make her love me less. my beautiful mama :) 
Reply from: HARAMBE24 Friday, October 10, 2008 08:21 AM

My ex - I loved him and still do coz when i am with him, i felt content and at peace. He laughed with me, he kept silent and listened when i bitched for nothing, he would hold me very tight even when i am asleep and i did not like that - but he wanted be closer. I loved him bcoz he loved, with all my imperfections...somehow he loved me. He was the best thing to ever happen to me...I dont know much about life, but i knew that he made me happy...Plus Lerete leo was the most beautiful one i have ever seen.

My Tvsa friends : My life has had a 100% turn around since i joined TVSA. I have made friends with some of the most wonderful women on this site, with big hearts and beautiful souls. They tolerate my madness, cry with me when i am in pain. They call me to find out if i am okay, they sms me to drive all the way to sandton during the night - to be with them and they lean on me when things are tough in their lives. I have never seen so much love amongst strangers....I love you ladies, ( no name droppins ngoba you knowy ourself chomas)

Reply from: tracy Friday, October 10, 2008 08:22 AM
toxic toxictttt:::::::::::::::::::::::::::oxic  to>>>>>>>>........xic junk food will kill you.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 08:22 AM
Dis blog makes me wana cry, *sniff sniff*
Reply from: Pooky Friday, October 10, 2008 08:24 AM

love my whole family especially from my dad's side....when everybody gets together its just pure crazyness and laughter from the cousins to the uncles/aunts to abezukulwana, kumnandi njeh 

my dad
..Whenever my hair zi dlakadlaka and out of place my dad would always go......."Pooky hai hai hai iza ne brush ndikulungise iinwele(and then he brushes them pushback style azimbambathe tl tl) and then athi "yah maan watsho wacaca, funeka ubeli lady maan , yaaah that's it, watsho wafana no mamakho kengoku"......and i always feel like a little girl when he does this but it makes me LOL as well hey

Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 08:27 AM
forgive me mistress, but i was only confessing my dying love for you, amongst other reasons of coz

maybe i'd feel better if you'd mentioned the other reasons, andzzz...everone on your list is great, ucarino yena is umistress wakho... 
In any case, i love you too, nigga...

both the giver and also the reciever)

unfortunately the "e" in receiver comes before the "i" and we never really use the word receiver... the more appropriate word would be "recipient" in that context.
Reply from: monchooza Friday, October 10, 2008 08:28 AM
@Monchoo were the same size(in terms of clothes)

U MUST BE VERY TINY DUDE, lol
Monwy...who said she is tiny....i wear i size 32 waiste.

@ Monchy - It shouldn't be about the family, but what u both feel for one another. Something tells me nizobuyelana, coz kuyazwakala ukuthi uyagcwala futhi uyachitheka ngaye.

for some strange reason...i believe that and so does she, problem is how do i brake the relationship i am in right now since, this gal loves me to bits and breaking her heart is the last thing i wanna do.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 08:30 AM

Yah neh.. ? Awelani dont cry.

Reply from: Best-Achiever Friday, October 10, 2008 08:32 AM
WSG & Best achiever-they realise the wisdom in me 

@Andiee .... i luv you too my Skat

I so much love wisdom in Segololo, Creativity in WhiteSockgal, open mind in Toxic, Smartness and sense of humor in Nonny, Pooky and Andie, innocent beauty in Cande and belz, enthusiasm and know-no-boundaries attitde in Brown Shuga, craziness in Cnglemom, different-life-approach in Sponono, humour ka mathatha.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 08:32 AM
Ok.....I know Monchooza loves his Mac.
Reply from: Pooky Friday, October 10, 2008 08:32 AM

true Andile, thank you sani...kinda teary now*sniff* eish really am such a sensitive soul....

Reply from: Best-Achiever Friday, October 10, 2008 08:33 AM
and living-life-light ka Beyonce .. i also adore Cody and other bloggers
Reply from: WhiteSockGirl Friday, October 10, 2008 08:34 AM
<<<WSG & Best achiever-they realise the wisdom in me >>

Andi01
,...  how can we not see it????  And I do not only realize it, I am admiring it!

<<<I love schwarma's from Anat>>>

Tox,... First thing I usually do when I am in JHB, I would pester the guesthouse peeps to direct me to the nearest Anat!!!!  'HUGE SIGH!!!!" no Anat in my lovely country...
Reply from: Cande Friday, October 10, 2008 08:36 AM
ooh Andi and others, thank you for appreciating me...and there i was thinking the whole world consider me RUDE..
Don't forget monday peeps, you girl is getting 1 year older. my bank details & postal address is available on request guys..LOL

I LOVE you all mabloggers, we differ in soo many ways & thatz what makes the world interesting..at the end of the day we 1 big family

((((((((((((CYBER HUG)))))))))))))))))))))))))

and the most 2 important people in my life, my mother & my lil brother..
Mom, you lost 2 babies in 2000 & 2002 and you still managed to give me a lil bro in 2005. Although you lost your other half last year  you still managed to be strong for u & me & my brother..i am what i am today because of you..I LOVE YOU
my lil bro--although you give my mother a lot of stress, know that everything i do i do it 4 u..LOL
Reply from: Cody Friday, October 10, 2008 08:39 AM

Yow nigga im touched wow yow!!!

Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:42 AM
for some strange reason...i believe that and so does she, problem is how do i brake the relationship i am in right now since, this gal loves me to bits and breaking her heart is the last thing i wanna do.
Monchy, I know we like putting other people b4 ourselves, but sometimes u need to take a selfish act, for the sake of our own happiness. I believe that breaking up with ur current galfriend, to be with the one who u love unconditionally is worth it. It will be sad ofcourse, but it's better to do it nopw, than later, coz it's inevitable for u to break up with her. Follow ur heart man and stop being a softie, impilo inzima.

Smartness and sense of humor in Nonny
Thanks BA, babygal, u know I love the fact that ur faith & beliefs are consistent. U're an inspiration with ur positive attitude towards life and the fact that u love helping people, whether it's emotionally and financially *.......and no bloggers I've never borrowed money from her, she knows what I am talking abt*

Ok.....I know Monchooza loves his Mac.
LOL eish u can say that again TDC.
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 08:42 AM
i love iPhone yami.
Reply from: Pooky Friday, October 10, 2008 08:46 AM
got so caught up in crying that i almost forgot to say...I LOVE YOU TOOO ANDIE(((cyber hugsss)))))
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 08:52 AM
Don't forget monday peeps, you girl is getting 1 year older. my bank details & postal address is available on request guys..LOL
OMG, Happy Bday in advance, I have mastered the art of mixing up peoples' birthdays, so I rather wish u now, than to wish u on Wednesday next week. 

Mom, you lost 2 babies in 2000 & 2002 and you still managed to give me a lil bro in 2005. Although you lost your other half last year you still managed to be strong for u & me & my brother..i am what i am today because of you..I LOVE YOU
Oh Nkosi, Cande this is so sweet, I hope ur mom knows this, she is phenomenal.
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 08:56 AM

TVSA, ya dibusa today.

Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 08:57 AM
Tjo guys can we stop with the soppy stuff-this article is making me emotional as well *sigh*

Monchy, I know we like putting other people b4 ourselves, but sometimes u need to take a selfish act, for the sake of our own happiness. I believe that breaking up with ur current galfriend, to be with the one who u love unconditionally is worth it. It will be sad ofcourse, but it's better to do it nopw, than later, coz it's inevitable for u to break up with her. Follow ur heart man and stop being a softie, impilo inzima. 

Yazi Nonny i was about to call you to ORDER when i realised how true what you're sayin is. Monchoo, i am still hung up over an ex i broke up with 6 years ago mfana. i had been fooling my self and my current-ex into believing i would get over him & i never did. I have never clicked like i did with that guy, he COMPLETED me. There was no way i was going to spend the rest of my life with current-X feeling the way i felt about the other guy. 

Kodwa i'm not going back there, though.
Reply from: monwy Friday, October 10, 2008 08:58 AM
Statement withdrawn Monch
Reply from: Lela Friday, October 10, 2008 08:58 AM
I love him because he is so kind, sweet,loving and caring. He treats me with respect,he apologises when he is wrong and he forgives me when I'm wrong. He is my best friend and he is very good at communicating. He is the first person I think of when I'm hurt or happy or wanna share something stupid. He gives the best massage in town and he has cooked for me at least twice in two years. He is not yet financially stable but he does spoil me with gifts and take me out. He has such a beautiful heart and a humble soul. I'm really blessed to have him in my life.
Yho TDC, its a good thing this article came on the day when we didn't have a fight I can't believe it was gonna be the opposite of all the thing I've written.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 09:02 AM
Yazi Nonny i was about to call you to ORDER when i realised how true what you're sayin is. 
I'm so gald u agree Tox, coz I have first hand knowledge abt this.

Take a U-turn Monchy, True Love is waiting for u. Just imginge the two of ur'll senishaya iDH ndawonye wearing abo size 32 bama jeans enu, looking sexy and hott........LOL
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 09:02 AM

Best-Achiever:
adj).....dignified, cultured, unshakeable.

There's something about you sisi that i like. How you stick to your convictions and how you have a way of handling criticism. you have a hard skin that's almost delicate to the touch. Like you have this filter that lets through ONLY what YOU want to let through and therefore nothing can shake your beliefs and what you stand for. if there's one person whose username suits them, it's you!

Reply from: monwy Friday, October 10, 2008 09:02 AM
I love my some1 c0z naye uyangithanda and we are makin a very cute couple together. cant imagine my life without yena
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 09:03 AM
Reply from: Cande Friday, October 10, 2008 09:04 AM
OMG, Happy Bday in advance, I have mastered the art of mixing up peoples' birthdays, so I rather wish u now, than to wish u on Wednesday next week. 

Next week wednesday its Andio1 wena Nonny, dont mix us up!!!
Reply from: Mopakistan Friday, October 10, 2008 09:05 AM
i dont say much but i love reading all y'all replies..u a bunch of fun,crazy people and i enjoy reading ur articles and replies so  much sometimes i feel im in the same world as all of y'all.dont know u'all personally but i relate to ur stories.
TDC..my friend i love u too..we been friends for more than 2 years now and though we've never met i feel like i've known u forever.thanks to u im on TVSA!
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 09:05 AM

I love my chick even though I dont want her to get full of herself.... not after the second chance.Love her though.

Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 09:07 AM
Love you too Mopakistan.......wena you know that.
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 09:07 AM
@toxic,dont say about  the EX he dropped the phone on my ears ,he told me his getting married february,so habatle MATHATA.

i dont want to go back BUT just to be Nyatsis fela,is what i was asking.period.
Reply from: Cande Friday, October 10, 2008 09:09 AM
ek hou van jou ook ANDI01 my skatteboltjie.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 09:10 AM
Next week wednesday its Andio1 wena Nonny, dont mix us up!!!
Thanks Cande, sengifake ama reminder on my phone so that I won't mix ur'll up.
Reply from: zozozo Friday, October 10, 2008 09:11 AM
1. My dad is the second guy who luvs me unconditionally, he is not a perfect man, but he is the greatest father to us.
2. My Brother,  the most selfish person i know but  i wouldn't sell him foa anything i luv that boy.
3. My Guy friends in no particular order Tebza,Loon, Nceba,Madman A-K & FARAI, they all had an impact on my perception of men.
4. I luved my ex,  for just being him.
Reply from: Cody Friday, October 10, 2008 09:12 AM

Yow nigga im touched wow yow!!!

Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 09:13 AM

LOL mathata. Nna ha ke batle hoba nyatsi. Ke batla ho ba nomoro UNO bophelong ba hae or nothing.

Reply from: Best-Achiever Friday, October 10, 2008 09:15 AM
Best-Achiever:
adj).....dignified, cultured, unshakeable.

There's something about you sisi that i like. How you stick to your convictions and how you have a way of handling criticism. you have a hard skin that's almost delicate to the touch. Like you have this filter that lets through ONLY what YOU want to let through and therefore nothing can shake your beliefs and what you stand for. if there's one person whose username suits them, it's you! 

@Toxic .... you brought tears into my eyes, sometimes we do or say thing not totally aware that others are noticing them ....im so immotional right now
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 09:17 AM
I love TVSA because even though Strictly Come Dancing is expoiting us and saying our name in passing, right at the end of their show, nogal.... thina we've almost dedicated the whole site to them... their name's all over the place and they are the fist thing you see when you open the TVSA site... we went big with them, banners, live blogs n'll... but bona all they can do is sing www.tvsa.co.za in a coarse voice.....

But TVSA  being the bigger person and is taking all this lying down.

thatha tvsa thatha.... it's not fair what SCD is doing... but ......

Reply from: Orie Friday, October 10, 2008 09:19 AM
I love my man, he completes my world, He tells me that he loves and misses me every hour, He might not have the looks but he is everything i need in a man.. He treats me like a princess and massage my foot and knows hyow to say sorry.. Babes **sniff sniff** it it wasnt for you I would have lost all confidence in love. Thank you for making me beleive that love is not about the looks but its about what is in the heard.. I love YOU sweetheart N.........
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 09:32 AM
@toxic,im married and i want someone who has stable relationship,for him to get married it was bonus for me,worse part ke le VENDA.

phela you cant eat cabbage everyday,once eat TURKEY  for a change,n you want someone you can talk too,that person im going to see him once a year,is not fabulous?
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 09:37 AM
",worse part ke le VENDA. " Haybo Mathaba keng eworse ka le VENDA?

Reply from: Orie Friday, October 10, 2008 09:41 AM
No No No people. Leave Vhavenda alone tsjini
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 09:43 AM
Now yall starting to do the irrelevant........;-(
Reply from: andi01 Friday, October 10, 2008 09:43 AM
Reply from: Cody Friday, October 10, 2008 09:46 AM
i am love my unborn baby, he has made me realise the most important things in life, he has made me strong, despite the way he was conceived. All of a sudden, i realise that being daddy's little girl doesnt cut it! Phela i never cared about my work, i always knew daddy will take care of things, if i had lost a job. Suddenly i dont care about parties, going out & shopping non-stop, all i care about is his well being and being the mother he can be proud of. I just admire the bond that we have even though he is not born yet, and the little not so nice kicks he gives me everytime i become a little sad, it feels like he is saying, snap out of it or else! and most importantly, he is the reason why i have found happieness (SP)

I love my dad, i would be totally devastated if i had to loose him, he is such a gentleman, he respects me. it doesnt matter how big my stomach gets, he gives me the tightest hugs and squeezes my baby.  He forgives me for the most craziest things. He breaks my heart everytime i ask him why he doesnt get married again, and he says, God gave him a chance to get married, although he has taken his sweetheart, he doesnt feel lonely because she is always in his heart and he feels her presence, so he is just waiting to be joined with her together again. plus i am everything he ever wanted.


Enjoy your blogging guys. you made me so emotional, i am going home, to my dad.
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 09:46 AM
OK,OK. TDC we get the point :-(
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 09:47 AM

@TDC,im sorry,they have uzohamba uzobuya.

Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 09:48 AM
**shaking my head with my hands on my waist...nc nc nc nc**
Reply from: HARAMBE24 Friday, October 10, 2008 09:53 AM
@toxic,im married and i want someone who has stable relationship,for him to get married it was bonus for me,worse part ke le VENDA. 

Mathata what is that actually suppose to me. I am sorry sweetie but i do take offense...lets refrain from tribalism toe not just coz i am muvenda....i am so not impressed ka wena
Reply from: tshepiso Friday, October 10, 2008 09:53 AM
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 09:54 AM

@Majakathata ooops! Mathata love you sis, but dying to know uzohamba uzobuya what is that?

Reply from: tshepiso Friday, October 10, 2008 09:54 AM
Reply from: tshepiso Friday, October 10, 2008 09:54 AM
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 09:58 AM
@tshepiso. ok love we get the point that you want to be here but you have no comment :-( can u STOP it now please!!!!!!!!!!
Reply from: Lela Friday, October 10, 2008 09:59 AM
I love Jesus_ He sacrificed to save me and I'm sanctified to serve Him.
I love my mom_ She still covers my a$$ 26 years later.
I love my nephews_  They are just so cool.
I love my daughter_ She reminds me of how great God's faithfullness is,she just brightens up my day and her smile just melts me even when I'm angry at her for spitting on my face.
I love my sister and my cousins_ Because we are siblings.
I love my friends_ They are like sisters to me.
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 10:02 AM
Uzohamba uzobuya loosley translated means go and u'll come back. I don't think Mathata meant to offend anyone. What's she's trying to say (at least from what i can make out) is that her ex boyfriend is MoVhenda and she wants to be his mistress. Because this man has hamba uzobuya, Mathata is still in lust with him.

This is where this starts:

@toxic,dont say about the EX he dropped the phone on my ears ,he told me his getting married february,so habatle MATHATA.
i dont want to go back BUT just to be Nyatsis fela,is what i was asking.period.
Reply from: awelani Friday, October 10, 2008 10:03 AM
He breaks my heart everytime i ask him why he doesnt get married again, and he says, God gave him a chance to get married, although he has taken his sweetheart, he doesnt feel lonely because she is always in his heart and he feels her presence, so he is just waiting to be joined with her together again. plus i am everything he ever wanted.  aaaawww!!! Now my eyes are filled with tears, codyyy its almost tym 2 go home and i cant be  in a taxi with "red" eyes, NX..BUT.i love ur dad 2...
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 10:07 AM

@H24,i dont want to impress you.

what im trying to say this guy his VENDA n his good in bed,dont you know vendas are good in bed?

Reply from: MediaSL*T Friday, October 10, 2008 10:12 AM
it was not the plan but i have fallen in love with my secret sugar daddy. He is not a grandfather, he is just 20 years older than me. He smells good, he is sofisticated, has money and everytime im with him i feel like im learning new things. The problem is his ex is very high profile, so besides taking me out to Backroom in pimville with his friends and they nyatsis nobody can know. He is afraid of what people will say, thats why i say falling in love was not the plan. Its too late now. I think about him every second of everyday.
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 10:15 AM
Thanks Toxic, i thought Uhamba Uzobuya is another name for Otakwethu, i was so gonna laugh at Mathata. it didn't offend me, was just asking nje bathong!!!!

my grandma would say "oyema mnyakong jena!!, ayi tata Tseko dintho dibuyima ditlaba bonolo kathapelo" (Just to stand against the door!! eish Tseko's Father things are so hard it will be better with prayers).
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 10:18 AM
anyway let me take care of my child.
guys Seeee you.

gotswa ka magoro gase golaela.

@CODY,,your dad he is a darling,tell him my mom shis a widow,
SHUGA,seeeeee you.

love you all,dont forget to CONDOMISE,
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 10:20 AM
"what im trying to say this guy his VENDA n his good in bed,dont you know vendas are good in bed?' U can say that again Mathata, sooooooo good damm those guys mmmmm!!!!!!!! *sucking my lips*
Reply from: Puma Friday, October 10, 2008 10:21 AM
At the risk of receiving a temper tantrum of a revert...I just have to say that for the life of me, I find it extremely difficult to make sense of ' What aka mathata's blog responses. It know it's English, but its so hard to follow the flow of a sentence let alone what she is saying. I don't mean to be bashful here What aka  Mathata, but  are you aware of how you construct your sentences? In all earnesty....
Reply from: QOKELA Friday, October 10, 2008 10:24 AM
i loved my ex and still love him because he was my first lover and he was so understanding. and i love my brother because he is the only one in my family who understand that i'm a sturbon lady.
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 10:24 AM
@SHUGA B.   ai maan.LMAO.

with TSEKo,hahahahahaha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 10:24 AM
@toxic... yes, it's true...

@everyone else... dont mind that.. Toxx... know what im on about.
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 10:24 AM
Bye Thati (Mathata) !!! *weaving my hand*
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 10:28 AM

I am so having a KK moment!

Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 10:31 AM
@puma,i write like an old man
Reply from: Bra Bizza Friday, October 10, 2008 10:32 AM
i still love all my ex-g/friends...for the fact that they understood that we had to part ways and still be civil to each other to a point that they'll take me out for a drink.
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 10:33 AM
@puma,i write like an old man telling a bad story.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 10:36 AM
And sh! t happens again........ Should Mathata retaliate am closing this down becuase it has lost direction. Anyhow....thanks  for a good Friday More than 200 responses. And oh..... 

Now that my heart is at ease after finding exactly what I thought I would find....All cool and thanks. Love yah  and all others.
Reply from: Puma Friday, October 10, 2008 10:37 AM
@ what aka mathata... that you do indeed : ) Kudo's to you for not attacking, but rather acknowledging  : )
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 10:38 AM
I love my dad, i would be totally devastated if i had to loose him, he is such a gentleman, he respects me. it doesnt matter how big my stomach gets, he gives me the tightest hugs and squeezes my baby. 
Arrrghhh man, so sweet. Cody ur dadddy is the best, he reminds me of my own father yazi, that man is my world.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 10:38 AM
Ok........Things are looking up.... Well done Thata's.
Reply from: Shuga babe Friday, October 10, 2008 10:41 AM
"with TSEKo,hahahahahaha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa" Tseko is my uncle my grandma's  first born son (Matseko). stop laughing at his name hahahha!!!!!!

Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 10:41 AM
CARINO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply from: Puma Friday, October 10, 2008 10:41 AM
TDC don't always expect the worst... she clearly understood that I was genuinely amused by her writing style.
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 10:45 AM

Nonny, pls respond to your wall post-------on the other side!!!

Reply from: carino Friday, October 10, 2008 10:46 AM
Now that my heart is at ease after finding exactly what I thought I would find....All cool and thanks. 

hehehehehhhh <<<shaking my head>>>

Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 10:47 AM
@puma,i write like an old man telling a bad story.
LMAO, Mathata i love u for being urself, nomatter what people may say. I love ur unique replies and ur amazing stories.
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 10:48 AM
@PUMA.no no no no no no no no,i dont get what you are saying at all?

@TDC,with LOVE N RESPECT,cherk all replys tell me you dont understand what i wrote pls,i will go back to Puma later.with respect.

chaka chaka mpondo.
Reply from: Nonny Friday, October 10, 2008 10:49 AM
Nonny, pls respond to your wall post-------on the other side!!!
Ok gal, I'm on my way there.
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 10:52 AM
Wena with your Chaka Chaka Mpondo.......you making me think of  something I think its impossible.
Carino .... you have been laughing at most of my replies...wonder why?
Reply from: Toxic Friday, October 10, 2008 10:55 AM
Carino hle!!!!
Reply from: DJ Why why Friday, October 10, 2008 10:57 AM
Am gonna print this and take it home to read, thanks TDC and all y'all for sharing...makes me wanna think of "All you need is love"....

Last ex: The Hotness, confidence, respectful, knew what he wanted out of life..... he occasionally acted childish just to make me laugh, listened, great comforter - always knows what to say!  When i met him he was SOOOO sweet and caring ........
Reply from: Toodecent Friday, October 10, 2008 11:17 AM
Mathata.....I had to hun am sorry;-)
Reply from: what aka mathata Friday, October 10, 2008 11:24 AM
@TDC,all my replys do you or dont understand what i wrote?im this person if i done wrong  i take a blame.

n if you dont tell me,you dont love me,n i dont expert mofiti ka tsela like PUMA to tell me,so have i done something wrong at what i wrote?if you are real men you will tell me.
Reply from: Beyonce Friday, October 10, 2008 13:18 PM
Oh TDC this is nice, 
-I love my man coz he worships me
-he gives me good loving
-understands that I play like a boy(ngi rough),
! he he he
-He makes the bed with me in the morning(how romantic)
-There is nothing in this world he wouldnt do for his queen.

Thanx again TDC for reminding me just how great he is,,
Reply from: Beyonce Friday, October 10, 2008 13:34 PM
Best Achiever -- thanx darling, you know how I feel about you mos :)
Reply from: Firstdvd Friday, October 10, 2008 18:14 PM
You know who you are. You too damn sweet...She sent me this msg last night:::: "Hey my friend,unjan,ngyakuchecka nje.":::
Reply from: Brown Shuga Friday, October 10, 2008 18:49 PM

Hey TDC, your friend loves you......

Reply from: faraimagic Saturday, October 11, 2008 07:18 AM

well i have learned not to take such things personal at a very young age...i dont allow people to bring me down!Carino you are forgiven!Lepego my stupid comments changes lives!Zozozo gel you know mos?PEACE
Jada Pinkett
-think you are very creative you shud right a movie  and i will finance it,coz i gat faith in you!The Rest of you...I SIMPLY ADORE YOU!

Reply from: monwy Saturday, October 11, 2008 07:35 AM
@Monch  
she had a kid and my family believed ukuthi, i deserve better than a girl with a buggage...

eish monch! y0 parents are imposible
Reply from: Nonny Saturday, October 11, 2008 07:51 AM
Lepego my stupid comments changes lives!
EXAMPLE???lol Just kidding Farai.
Reply from: Nonny Saturday, October 11, 2008 07:54 AM
Jada Pinkett-think you are very creative you shud(should) right (write) a movie and i will finance it,coz i gat (got) faith in you!
In memory of our very own spelling bee uCarino.........LOL
Reply from: monwy Saturday, October 11, 2008 08:34 AM
hi Nonny, nginebhabhalaz maan galfrend! i've just come  to eRES after clubbing all night
Reply from: cnhlanhla Saturday, October 11, 2008 09:55 AM

wow TDC what a blog mfana!....

I love all the wonderful peeps in my life... am talking my family, friends, acquintances, peers,  the two guys i've dated in mylife(yes i still do, won't elaborate tho ) .....God for blessing me with such ideal people in mylife and of cause tvsa bloggers.

Reply from: monwy Saturday, October 11, 2008 10:42 AM

cnhlanhla, how old are u to have dated onli 2.

i give u an endless list of my ex boyfriends mfe2

Reply from: belz Sunday, October 12, 2008 04:00 AM
i love you too my friend, you are the man!!!! you know who you are.
Reply from: Toodecent Monday, October 13, 2008 02:04 AM
BS.......I know about that dude its been a year or soo.
Love you too Belz...uyazi anyway.
Thanks all..!
Reply from: Toodecent Monday, October 13, 2008 02:13 AM
Happy Birthday Cande.....Enjoy your day.
Reply from: monchooza Monday, October 13, 2008 03:12 AM
Yeah Hepi befedy..Candilicious
Reply from: libra Monday, October 13, 2008 03:21 AM
Reply from: Cande Monday, October 13, 2008 03:28 AM
thank you guys, did you guys send my fav celebrity to call me?? I just received a strange call from someone i dont know.. He sang very well and said he was bringing me flowers..I cant wait
Reply from: carino Monday, October 13, 2008 03:33 AM
Reply from: faraimagic 10/11/2008 1:18:30 PM
Carino you are forgiven!
 

OMG....you dont know how much that means to me Farai, thank you, thank you, thank, you.... 
So we cool?

Reply from: andi01 Monday, October 13, 2008 04:05 AM
Happy Birthday Cande girl, may you have a lekker dag and a joyous life ahead.
Reply from: andi01 Monday, October 13, 2008 04:05 AM
Happy Birthday Cande girl, may you have a lekker dag and a joyous life ahead.
Reply from: awelani Monday, October 13, 2008 04:11 AM
Happy befday Cande.. have a spelendid day. :)
Reply from: Cande Monday, October 13, 2008 04:13 AM

thank you Andi01

Reply from: rego Monday, October 13, 2008 05:25 AM
Cande ngwanyana o gole o gole o lekane le nna.Itumelle letsatsi la gago o se letle ope go go senyetsa lone.
Reply from: carino Monday, October 13, 2008 09:55 AM
hehehehh.. there's some stuff that was said on Friday that im only seeing now....
Reply from: Toodecent Monday, August 17, 2009 12:19 PM

This was nice damn good old days..

 


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